We were extremely thrilled this morning when we received a phone call from Jake's nurse case manager telling us that she got an appointment (this morning) for Jake with the Colonel to receive his PT evaluation. :) After formation, we headed over to the hospital for the appointment and for me to cancel my NMA orders and arrange a flight home.
While I took care of that business, Jake went to PT. We met up in the PT waiting room before he was called back. When he came back out of the evaluation, he was pushing his wheelchair while walking with his cane!! :) I was soooooo thrilled to see him with his cane! That's what he's been waiting for. He had a huge grin on his face and proceeded to tell me that the Colonel joked around with him, did the evaluation, had Jake walk around the PT room with a walker and then again with a cane. The Colonel was so surprised at how well Jake did. He told Jake that he couldn't believe his stamina and that it's the best he's seen from a lot of these warriors. :) Usually these warriors get worn out with just walking around the room once--Jake did it twice. :) The rest of the day Jake walked as much as he could until his legs started to hurt or he just got worn out--then he got back into his wheelchair. You can just picture in your mind Jake walking with his cane while I am walking behind him with his empty wheelchair close to him just in case--that's a funny sight! Well, at least I think so. We got a few stares. :)
The afternoon was spent trying to get Jake's paperwork done for the CBWTU. I can't believe how much paperwork is involved with this! It really is ridiculous! We started out with 4 pieces of paper in a manila folder and by the end of the afternoon, we had a stack of papers that the folder was starting to bulge. :( And, Jake isn't done yet. There are a few more forms that he has to go get signed--more papers! We are making sure that everything is done--all the T's are crossed and the I's dotted because he was told by the CBWTU that if anything isn't complete that he will have to return back down here to get it done. We DON'T want that!! We met a very nice woman today at one of the stops--she helped with one part of the paperwork process. She told Jake that she now knows who he is and that she is going to be like a big sister to him and make sure that everything gets taken care of so that he doesn't have to come back here. :) That was comforting to me, as his mom. He's got a few days that are going to be consumed with getting the rest of the paperwork done on time. The hospital/base is going to be closed next Thursday (Veteran's Day) and Friday (Training Day), so he has to get everything done by Monday so that they can start working on his travel arrangements. He will definitely be worn out each day.
I canceled my NMA orders and am going home tomorrow morning. :) I am very excited to go back home to be with Mike and the family, but my heart is breaking that I have to leave Jake. It's just who I am. I am a worry wort. :( I know that he will be okay and that he's a man, not a little child anymore. Guess a mama bear just doesn't stop worrying about her cubs, huh? :)
Thursday, November 4, 2010
Tuesday, November 2, 2010
Day 114 - Nov 2
Well, Jake and I are now back in DC. :( We had a wonderful two weeks at home with family and friends. It was very hard to leave them, but we are happy that this will be the last time. Jake only has until next weekend to be here and then he will be on his way to Massachusetts to the CBWTU (Community Based Warrior Transition Unit), stay there for a few days, and then home with us for good. :)
While we were home, Jake decided to start walking on his own. :p He figured that since the surgeon told him that he could put weight on the legs, that he wasn't going to wait until we came back down here to start walking. So, he first tested out his legs by standing by his wheelchair. Then it progressed to taking a few steps--then more steps. By the time we came back here yesterday, he is doing really well with his walking and just needs a cane so that he can have more support. However, he still uses his wheelchair quite a bit.
Today was an interesting, frustrating, discouraging, and encouraging one. So many emotions were expressed today--by both of us. We were excited to start the day because Jake had PT appointments (aquatic and land) this morning that he set up before going home on leave. He loves having aquatic therapy because he is in the pool and his legs feel so much better afterwards. As the receptionist guided Jake to the locker room to change into his swim trunks, I settled down in the waiting room chairs and started to read a book. I figured that I would be waiting for a while because he would be in the pool for an hour and then go right to land therapy which would be another hour. Within 15-20 minutes after arriving there, I looked up from my book to see Jake rolling out in his wheelchair with a disgusted look on his face. I gave him a questioning look and asked him what was wrong. He then told me the most frustrating news. :(
The Colonel, who is the head physical therapist there, stopped Jake before he started to get into the pool. He asked Jake when the last time was that he evaluated him. Jake reminded him that he did an evaluation two weeks ago, that he told him to make appointments for when he got back, and of everything else that they talked about doing for his physical therapy. The Colonel then told him that he needed to cancel all of the appointments that Jake made (which were three this week with both aquatic and land--so 6 appointments) because he said that he had to evaluate Jake again because it's been two weeks. WHAT!!!???? They only do evaluations every 30 days!! It's only been 17 days since the last evaluation!! AND, what would be the harm in Jake having the physical therapy already scheduled until the new evaluation (which is scheduled for this Friday)?? Jake informed the Colonel that he had the paper in his backpack that the Colonel wrote on about setting up appointments and such. The Colonel was firm--cancel the appointments this week, see you on Friday. :( I was FURIOUS!!! This would make 4 weeks down here without any physical therapy at all!!! And, by the time they schedule appointments for him again, it will be 5 weeks!! Yes, Jake did have physical therapy at home, but none down here since the end of September. The whole walk back to room we discussed this whole situation--both of us were not only fuming about it, but were very discouraged and frustrated--especially Jake. He told me that he didn't even know why he came back here because they're not helping him.
Well, mother bear here decided (after conversing with father bear) that this was enough! So, with the guidance of father bear, I called the commander over the warrior transition brigade and told him what was going on. I told him that I didn't know who I should talk to about this but that I remembered what he said to the NMA's and the soldiers in our first meeting together, "If you have any problems or concerns, please call me." And then he gave each of us his business card. So, I followed his counsel. :) I felt awful later because I found out that he is on convalescent leave due to having surgery. :( But, he reassured me that it was fine and that he would do some investigating about this and get answers. Within 15 minutes or so after I talked to him, Jake received a phone call from his nurse case manager. :) She asked him how he was doing and what was the problem. Jake explained everything to her and she said that she would get right on it. I am soooooooooo grateful that she is his new nurse case manager! She is amazing!! She called me later and said that she talked to the Colonel and that tomorrow morning they are going to try to get Jake's evaluation moved up sooner and get him his PT. Wow!! Guess talking to the head guy really does work sometimes!!
So, we will find out the scheduling for PT tomorrow. That was the frustrating, discouraging, interesting--and a bit of an encouraging part of the day.
The other part of the day was very, very encouraging! YEAH!! Jake had his last OT evaluation today with Jacqui. She saw that he can stand and walk and told us right away that he doesn't need an NMA any more. So, what does that mean?? It means that I can go back home if I would like to. :) And, I would like to!! :) Jake and I have had quite a few discussions about this day and what may happen. He said that even though he will miss my company, that I should go home because he really doesn't need my help with his daily living abilities. He reminded me that even though he doesn't need me as an NMA, he will always need his mom. :) What a sweet man! He also said that he can handle it because he is here for just one more week. I told him that I think that I am having more of a struggle cutting the apron strings than he is. After taking care of him for the past four months, it will be hard to leave him. However, it's been four months (with visits in between) that I have been away from Mike, our children and grandchildren, and our home. So, I will be heading home either Thursday or Friday this week and start preparing for a wonderful "Welcome Home For Good" celebration for Jake. :) I am excited to go home! :) Jake does have some friends down here to keep him company, so that makes it a little bit easier to leave.
There's alot to do tomorrow! Jake has paperwork to be signed for "out processing" so that he can leave next week for the CBWTU, I have to discontinue my NMA orders and get a flight arranged, and I have to make sure that everything is settled for Jake with our room. I know, I know, he's a big boy now. But, it's the "mother" in me that has to make sure that her kids will be fine without her. :)
So, off to get a good night's sleep--I hope. Jake is already gone--he fell asleep hours ago! :)
While we were home, Jake decided to start walking on his own. :p He figured that since the surgeon told him that he could put weight on the legs, that he wasn't going to wait until we came back down here to start walking. So, he first tested out his legs by standing by his wheelchair. Then it progressed to taking a few steps--then more steps. By the time we came back here yesterday, he is doing really well with his walking and just needs a cane so that he can have more support. However, he still uses his wheelchair quite a bit.
Today was an interesting, frustrating, discouraging, and encouraging one. So many emotions were expressed today--by both of us. We were excited to start the day because Jake had PT appointments (aquatic and land) this morning that he set up before going home on leave. He loves having aquatic therapy because he is in the pool and his legs feel so much better afterwards. As the receptionist guided Jake to the locker room to change into his swim trunks, I settled down in the waiting room chairs and started to read a book. I figured that I would be waiting for a while because he would be in the pool for an hour and then go right to land therapy which would be another hour. Within 15-20 minutes after arriving there, I looked up from my book to see Jake rolling out in his wheelchair with a disgusted look on his face. I gave him a questioning look and asked him what was wrong. He then told me the most frustrating news. :(
The Colonel, who is the head physical therapist there, stopped Jake before he started to get into the pool. He asked Jake when the last time was that he evaluated him. Jake reminded him that he did an evaluation two weeks ago, that he told him to make appointments for when he got back, and of everything else that they talked about doing for his physical therapy. The Colonel then told him that he needed to cancel all of the appointments that Jake made (which were three this week with both aquatic and land--so 6 appointments) because he said that he had to evaluate Jake again because it's been two weeks. WHAT!!!???? They only do evaluations every 30 days!! It's only been 17 days since the last evaluation!! AND, what would be the harm in Jake having the physical therapy already scheduled until the new evaluation (which is scheduled for this Friday)?? Jake informed the Colonel that he had the paper in his backpack that the Colonel wrote on about setting up appointments and such. The Colonel was firm--cancel the appointments this week, see you on Friday. :( I was FURIOUS!!! This would make 4 weeks down here without any physical therapy at all!!! And, by the time they schedule appointments for him again, it will be 5 weeks!! Yes, Jake did have physical therapy at home, but none down here since the end of September. The whole walk back to room we discussed this whole situation--both of us were not only fuming about it, but were very discouraged and frustrated--especially Jake. He told me that he didn't even know why he came back here because they're not helping him.
Well, mother bear here decided (after conversing with father bear) that this was enough! So, with the guidance of father bear, I called the commander over the warrior transition brigade and told him what was going on. I told him that I didn't know who I should talk to about this but that I remembered what he said to the NMA's and the soldiers in our first meeting together, "If you have any problems or concerns, please call me." And then he gave each of us his business card. So, I followed his counsel. :) I felt awful later because I found out that he is on convalescent leave due to having surgery. :( But, he reassured me that it was fine and that he would do some investigating about this and get answers. Within 15 minutes or so after I talked to him, Jake received a phone call from his nurse case manager. :) She asked him how he was doing and what was the problem. Jake explained everything to her and she said that she would get right on it. I am soooooooooo grateful that she is his new nurse case manager! She is amazing!! She called me later and said that she talked to the Colonel and that tomorrow morning they are going to try to get Jake's evaluation moved up sooner and get him his PT. Wow!! Guess talking to the head guy really does work sometimes!!
So, we will find out the scheduling for PT tomorrow. That was the frustrating, discouraging, interesting--and a bit of an encouraging part of the day.
The other part of the day was very, very encouraging! YEAH!! Jake had his last OT evaluation today with Jacqui. She saw that he can stand and walk and told us right away that he doesn't need an NMA any more. So, what does that mean?? It means that I can go back home if I would like to. :) And, I would like to!! :) Jake and I have had quite a few discussions about this day and what may happen. He said that even though he will miss my company, that I should go home because he really doesn't need my help with his daily living abilities. He reminded me that even though he doesn't need me as an NMA, he will always need his mom. :) What a sweet man! He also said that he can handle it because he is here for just one more week. I told him that I think that I am having more of a struggle cutting the apron strings than he is. After taking care of him for the past four months, it will be hard to leave him. However, it's been four months (with visits in between) that I have been away from Mike, our children and grandchildren, and our home. So, I will be heading home either Thursday or Friday this week and start preparing for a wonderful "Welcome Home For Good" celebration for Jake. :) I am excited to go home! :) Jake does have some friends down here to keep him company, so that makes it a little bit easier to leave.
There's alot to do tomorrow! Jake has paperwork to be signed for "out processing" so that he can leave next week for the CBWTU, I have to discontinue my NMA orders and get a flight arranged, and I have to make sure that everything is settled for Jake with our room. I know, I know, he's a big boy now. But, it's the "mother" in me that has to make sure that her kids will be fine without her. :)
So, off to get a good night's sleep--I hope. Jake is already gone--he fell asleep hours ago! :)
Monday, October 18, 2010
Day 98 - Oct 17
We are home!!!! :) Even though it's only for two weeks, we are still thrilled that we can be home with our family.
Jake didn't have any appointments on Friday except for his platoon's formation in the morning. So, most of the day we (well, I did) going through some things and packing. We brought a lot of things home with us that Jake has accumulated over the past few months. Didn't know that he had so much stuff! We have left some things in our room that he will need when we return in two weeks.
Our flight home yesterday went very smoothly--except for some bumpy spots after take off and before landing--due to the weather. It was a beautiful day in DC--some winds, but nothing too bad until we got up into the clouds. When we arrived in VT, it was raining and much cooler than what we left. It's okay--we love fall weather in VT. As we started coming down out of the clouds, Jake nudged me and told me to look out the window. Wow, it was beautiful!! All you could see was a huge array of beautiful fall colors throughout the landscape. :)
Tomorrow Jake is calling the PT office (here in VT that he was going to when he was on con leave) to get appointments set up for the next two weeks. He wants to get back into the pool again and work his legs more.
He is able to get up and down the stairs in the house by going on his butt and using his arms. :) He really likes being back in his own room and having his privacy again. He continues to try to stand (using his wheelchair as support) and wants to walk so badly.
A lot of people asked why I didn't post anything while Jake was home on con leave and that they missed it. I apologize for that. Being home on con leave was a time for both Jake and I to convalesce, so other than him doing PT a few times a week, we just enjoyed relaxing and spending as much time as possible with our family. I will probably not post every day while we are home this time, but I do promise that I will post throughout this leave time to keep you updated on how Jake is and how his recovery is going.
We are so grateful to everyone for their continued concern, support, love, and prayers for Jake and our family. We appreciate it and each of you. Thank you so very, very much!
Off to have fun with our family! :)
Thursday, October 14, 2010
Day 90 - Day 95 Oct 9th-Oct 14
I truly, truly apologize for not posting for the past few days. Between the long weekend and having major internet issues--well, I didn't get to post. So sorry. :(
We had a very long weekend. Friday there were no appointments, no nothing for the day because of training at the hospital. With not having a car here, it makes it very difficult to get around to do things. We have to take a shuttle to get down to Silver Spring and the shuttle doesn't even come around until 5 p.m. Saturday we had a wonderful BBQ put on by the Iraq Star organization. It was a huge show! They had a live band, food was provided by Outback Steakhouse (oh, so, so, so yummy!!!), and even Marilyn Monroe showed up!! Well, an impersonator that is. Apparently she is the #1 Marilyn Monroe impersonator in the country and flew out to DC from Las Vegas. She came over to Jake and had pictures taken. :) It was a lot of fun that day. The weather was gorgeous too. :)
Sunday was a quite day all around. It seemed much quieter around the Mologne House also. There was another BBQ put on by a local church--not as well attended and the food wasn't Outback's, but it was really nice. It was a peaceful day and a peaceful atmosphere which was really nice.
These past few days haven't been very full of appointments--in fact, today was about the busiest day we've had with appointments. So, a wrap-up: Jake got all the signatures he needed for his leave form and turned it all in to his sergeant. So, we are on our way home on Saturday!!! :) He was FINALLY able to get in to the Physical Therapist today to have his reevaluation. His range of motion has increased quite a bit--the therapist was pleased, but there is still work to do. He wanted to get Jake up and walking next week, but with us going home, Jake will have to wait until we return back down here. Jake is okay with that--he really, really wants to go home again. While he is at home, he will continue receiving PT where he was receiving it before when he was home on con leave. The therapist also wants him to have aquatic therapy 3 times a week and land therapy (normal physical therapy) 3 times a week. So, when we return, he will have PT appointments almost every single day. :) We are thrilled with that especially since he hasn't had any for three weeks. So, when we return, we wont be bored anymore--which we are also thrilled about.
Oh, some more wonderful news!! Jake has a new nurse case manager!! :) She is amazing and is so wonderful!! What a difference from his previous one--she gets things done right away. I can't believe how on the ball she is with Jake's care. Jake and I wish that he was assigned to her when he got here.
These past few weeks, I have gotten to meet and talk with other moms that are here. It's been very nice--talking with other moms who are going through the exact same things that I am. By talking with each other, we also learn new things--we all have something to share that others didn't know about.
Tomorrow will be a day of last minute things and packing for home. It'll be wonderful to be with family once again! :)
We had a very long weekend. Friday there were no appointments, no nothing for the day because of training at the hospital. With not having a car here, it makes it very difficult to get around to do things. We have to take a shuttle to get down to Silver Spring and the shuttle doesn't even come around until 5 p.m. Saturday we had a wonderful BBQ put on by the Iraq Star organization. It was a huge show! They had a live band, food was provided by Outback Steakhouse (oh, so, so, so yummy!!!), and even Marilyn Monroe showed up!! Well, an impersonator that is. Apparently she is the #1 Marilyn Monroe impersonator in the country and flew out to DC from Las Vegas. She came over to Jake and had pictures taken. :) It was a lot of fun that day. The weather was gorgeous too. :)
Sunday was a quite day all around. It seemed much quieter around the Mologne House also. There was another BBQ put on by a local church--not as well attended and the food wasn't Outback's, but it was really nice. It was a peaceful day and a peaceful atmosphere which was really nice.
These past few days haven't been very full of appointments--in fact, today was about the busiest day we've had with appointments. So, a wrap-up: Jake got all the signatures he needed for his leave form and turned it all in to his sergeant. So, we are on our way home on Saturday!!! :) He was FINALLY able to get in to the Physical Therapist today to have his reevaluation. His range of motion has increased quite a bit--the therapist was pleased, but there is still work to do. He wanted to get Jake up and walking next week, but with us going home, Jake will have to wait until we return back down here. Jake is okay with that--he really, really wants to go home again. While he is at home, he will continue receiving PT where he was receiving it before when he was home on con leave. The therapist also wants him to have aquatic therapy 3 times a week and land therapy (normal physical therapy) 3 times a week. So, when we return, he will have PT appointments almost every single day. :) We are thrilled with that especially since he hasn't had any for three weeks. So, when we return, we wont be bored anymore--which we are also thrilled about.
Oh, some more wonderful news!! Jake has a new nurse case manager!! :) She is amazing and is so wonderful!! What a difference from his previous one--she gets things done right away. I can't believe how on the ball she is with Jake's care. Jake and I wish that he was assigned to her when he got here.
These past few weeks, I have gotten to meet and talk with other moms that are here. It's been very nice--talking with other moms who are going through the exact same things that I am. By talking with each other, we also learn new things--we all have something to share that others didn't know about.
Tomorrow will be a day of last minute things and packing for home. It'll be wonderful to be with family once again! :)
Friday, October 8, 2010
Day 89 - Oct 7
What a day!! It started out with a ton of frustration and ended with a true blessing!
We woke to the news that Jake's PT appointment (to have his reassessment done) was cancelled and rescheduled for next week. UGH!!!! So, it will be about three weeks that he hasn't had one PT appointment! :( We were so upset and very, very disappointed. We are very frustrated with his nurse case manager because, other than this appointment being canceled today, it has been his lack of doing things that Jake has been without PT.
We decided to go to the hospital to get other things accomplished before the holiday weekend because everything will be closed. While we were there, we found out that one other item that we thought was taken care of hasn't been completed. It just seemed like everything was going against Jake today. He was so upset, angry, frustrated, etc., etc.
We headed over to his nurse case manager's (NCM) office to find out what was going on and why these things weren't taken care of. This is the NCMs last day--he's leaving--and turning over all his soldiers to a different NCM. Thank goodness!! The man is a very nice man, but he just did not do his job very well. We were told that Jake's NCM is exceptionally good and that she will take care of Jake and get things done. We are very happy about that. We expressed our frustrations to his present NCM (the new NCM saw and heard it all) and his response? "It's not my fault." Granted, we know that it wasn't his fault that the appointment got cancelled this morning, but it is his fault that we've been here two weeks and have had no PT. (We had to go through him to get restarted with PT--we couldn't make the appointments ourselves until the reassessment was done.)
We said our goodbyes to him and headed to an appointment with one of his Sergeants. The Sergeant knew that we had a few things to talk to him about--one being about the NCM. This Sergeant is a wonderful man--and very understanding. Apparently we aren't the only ones who have issues with this NCM. :( The other thing we talked to him about is having Jake take some personal leave to go home for a couple of weeks before reporting to the CBWTU. And, we can!!! :) So, we are heading home next Saturday for two weeks and then we have to come back down here to do the "out processing" paperwork so that he can go to the CBWTU. Jake also received phone calls today from the CBWTU case manager and his platoon Sergeant to explain things to him. We are excited that things are falling into place for us to go home for a bit and for Jake and the CBWTU.
The best news and blessing of the day?? Mike and I have a brand new granddaughter!! This is grandbaby #8!! :) She weighed in at 7 lbs. 10 oz. and was 20" long. She is beautiful!! I was able to see her on Skype this afternoon. :) Mom, Dad, big sister, and baby are all doing extremely well and are very, very happy. :)
So, the day turned out much better than what the morning indicated it would be like. So glad it did. :)
We woke to the news that Jake's PT appointment (to have his reassessment done) was cancelled and rescheduled for next week. UGH!!!! So, it will be about three weeks that he hasn't had one PT appointment! :( We were so upset and very, very disappointed. We are very frustrated with his nurse case manager because, other than this appointment being canceled today, it has been his lack of doing things that Jake has been without PT.
We decided to go to the hospital to get other things accomplished before the holiday weekend because everything will be closed. While we were there, we found out that one other item that we thought was taken care of hasn't been completed. It just seemed like everything was going against Jake today. He was so upset, angry, frustrated, etc., etc.
We headed over to his nurse case manager's (NCM) office to find out what was going on and why these things weren't taken care of. This is the NCMs last day--he's leaving--and turning over all his soldiers to a different NCM. Thank goodness!! The man is a very nice man, but he just did not do his job very well. We were told that Jake's NCM is exceptionally good and that she will take care of Jake and get things done. We are very happy about that. We expressed our frustrations to his present NCM (the new NCM saw and heard it all) and his response? "It's not my fault." Granted, we know that it wasn't his fault that the appointment got cancelled this morning, but it is his fault that we've been here two weeks and have had no PT. (We had to go through him to get restarted with PT--we couldn't make the appointments ourselves until the reassessment was done.)
We said our goodbyes to him and headed to an appointment with one of his Sergeants. The Sergeant knew that we had a few things to talk to him about--one being about the NCM. This Sergeant is a wonderful man--and very understanding. Apparently we aren't the only ones who have issues with this NCM. :( The other thing we talked to him about is having Jake take some personal leave to go home for a couple of weeks before reporting to the CBWTU. And, we can!!! :) So, we are heading home next Saturday for two weeks and then we have to come back down here to do the "out processing" paperwork so that he can go to the CBWTU. Jake also received phone calls today from the CBWTU case manager and his platoon Sergeant to explain things to him. We are excited that things are falling into place for us to go home for a bit and for Jake and the CBWTU.
The best news and blessing of the day?? Mike and I have a brand new granddaughter!! This is grandbaby #8!! :) She weighed in at 7 lbs. 10 oz. and was 20" long. She is beautiful!! I was able to see her on Skype this afternoon. :) Mom, Dad, big sister, and baby are all doing extremely well and are very, very happy. :)
So, the day turned out much better than what the morning indicated it would be like. So glad it did. :)
Wednesday, October 6, 2010
Day 88 - Oct 6
Jake had his OT reassessment appointment with Jacqui this morning. He is able to do all of his daily living skills except for one, so he still needs a NMA. So, that means that he is stuck with his ol' mom for another month. ;) She told him that at his next appointment he will no longer need a NMA because he will be standing and walking by then.
His sergeant called him last night and told him that after his appointment this morning that he needed to head to the 2nd floor of the hospital for his flu shot. Jake explained that he received one before deployment, but the sergeant still insisted that he get one. In other words, he was ordered to get one. So, we headed down to where they were giving them and ran into one of the head nurses that was on his ward when he was in the hospital. :) It was nice to see her again. She gave him the paperwork to fill out for the shot/nasal mist and kept asking me if I was going to get one too. I told her that it was only for him and she said, "No way! It's for you too!" She said that since I was his NMA and was near him alot that I should get one. I tried to get out of getting it because you have to go through a process (as a civilian) to get treatment at this hospital, but she was very insistent and made sure that I got to where I needed to go for my "blue" card. Off I went. It wasn't as bad as I thought it would be, but it wasn't fun either. So, as Jake's NMA, I too received a flu shot. He got the nasal mist--I got the shot. My arm is a bit bruised and sore, but I'm a tough ol' bird and will get through it. :)
We had to get an appointment with his primary care doctor today because since it is a holiday here on Monday, offices at the hospital will be shut down and Jake was running low on one of his pain meds. While we were there, we tried to take care of a huge mistake. Jake was sent a bill from one of the doctors there at the hospital for his services. We couldn't believe it!! As a wounded soldier, everything is paid for by the insurance company. Even his primary care doctor was shocked to see the bill. We have to go back over to the hospital tomorrow to finish fixing this mistake.
We also stopped to talk to one of his sergeants about the possibility of Jake taking some personal leave to go home again before heading to the CBWTU. He wants to be home for his sister's birthday and for Halloween. We are not sure if it will be possible, but the sergeant was going to do some research and will call us tomorrow. Since we have returned back here (two weeks now), Jake has not had any PT appointments at all. :( It is very, very discouraging for him. That's another reason why he wants to go home--he knows that he will get PT appointments there and continue on his recovery to walk.
We'll see what happens.
His sergeant called him last night and told him that after his appointment this morning that he needed to head to the 2nd floor of the hospital for his flu shot. Jake explained that he received one before deployment, but the sergeant still insisted that he get one. In other words, he was ordered to get one. So, we headed down to where they were giving them and ran into one of the head nurses that was on his ward when he was in the hospital. :) It was nice to see her again. She gave him the paperwork to fill out for the shot/nasal mist and kept asking me if I was going to get one too. I told her that it was only for him and she said, "No way! It's for you too!" She said that since I was his NMA and was near him alot that I should get one. I tried to get out of getting it because you have to go through a process (as a civilian) to get treatment at this hospital, but she was very insistent and made sure that I got to where I needed to go for my "blue" card. Off I went. It wasn't as bad as I thought it would be, but it wasn't fun either. So, as Jake's NMA, I too received a flu shot. He got the nasal mist--I got the shot. My arm is a bit bruised and sore, but I'm a tough ol' bird and will get through it. :)
We had to get an appointment with his primary care doctor today because since it is a holiday here on Monday, offices at the hospital will be shut down and Jake was running low on one of his pain meds. While we were there, we tried to take care of a huge mistake. Jake was sent a bill from one of the doctors there at the hospital for his services. We couldn't believe it!! As a wounded soldier, everything is paid for by the insurance company. Even his primary care doctor was shocked to see the bill. We have to go back over to the hospital tomorrow to finish fixing this mistake.
We also stopped to talk to one of his sergeants about the possibility of Jake taking some personal leave to go home again before heading to the CBWTU. He wants to be home for his sister's birthday and for Halloween. We are not sure if it will be possible, but the sergeant was going to do some research and will call us tomorrow. Since we have returned back here (two weeks now), Jake has not had any PT appointments at all. :( It is very, very discouraging for him. That's another reason why he wants to go home--he knows that he will get PT appointments there and continue on his recovery to walk.
We'll see what happens.
Tuesday, October 5, 2010
Day 87 - Oct 5
GREAT NEWS!!!!!!! :) Jake got accepted into the CBWTU!!!!! We are coming home for good!!!! :)
However, his report date is not what he was hoping for. :( He was hoping for the end of this month, but he has to report there on November 14th. So, we still have some time here. But, that's okay--he's in and we will be going home--that's what is important.
AND, MORE GREAT NEWS!!!! Jake went to see his orthopedic surgeon. He told Jake that he can now start putting weight on his legs and start walking again. :) They want him to start putting weight on his right leg now and within two weeks, the left leg. The surgeon was very pleased to see how well Jake can straighten out his leg and how far back he can bend it. Jake stood up a few times today also!! He was very thrilled to see that he is still taller than me. :) For the past few months, I've been the tall one. Oh well, guess I need to get back to reality--I'll never be taller than my kids! ;)
The surgeon told us that he will be leaving in a few weeks for deployment to Afghanistan. :( Our thoughts and prayers are with him and his family. We are so grateful for him--for everything that he has done for Jake. He is an amazing surgeon.
Jake has an early morning appointment tomorrow with Jacqui (OT) to see if he still needs a NMA. She will determine how much of his ADL (daily living skills) that he can do on his own and how much, if any, he needs help with.
It's been a great day today! We are very excited about the future!
However, his report date is not what he was hoping for. :( He was hoping for the end of this month, but he has to report there on November 14th. So, we still have some time here. But, that's okay--he's in and we will be going home--that's what is important.
AND, MORE GREAT NEWS!!!! Jake went to see his orthopedic surgeon. He told Jake that he can now start putting weight on his legs and start walking again. :) They want him to start putting weight on his right leg now and within two weeks, the left leg. The surgeon was very pleased to see how well Jake can straighten out his leg and how far back he can bend it. Jake stood up a few times today also!! He was very thrilled to see that he is still taller than me. :) For the past few months, I've been the tall one. Oh well, guess I need to get back to reality--I'll never be taller than my kids! ;)
The surgeon told us that he will be leaving in a few weeks for deployment to Afghanistan. :( Our thoughts and prayers are with him and his family. We are so grateful for him--for everything that he has done for Jake. He is an amazing surgeon.
Jake has an early morning appointment tomorrow with Jacqui (OT) to see if he still needs a NMA. She will determine how much of his ADL (daily living skills) that he can do on his own and how much, if any, he needs help with.
It's been a great day today! We are very excited about the future!
Monday, October 4, 2010
Day 86 - Oct 4
Brrrrrr . . . . it's chilly down here today! It kind of reminds me of Vermont weather. :) I like it, but Jake wants the 90 degree weather back! He can have it--I much rather have the cooler weather.
We had to go to his formation this morning. That's all the appointments we had today. :( However, we did get to see and talk with his nurse case manager. He made the initial call to the CBWTU (to go home for good) and they didn't deny Jake--which is great news--but they haven't given the okay either. They are waiting for the PMR (patient medical request) paperwork. All we need is his primary care physician's signature (which she already has stated that she would sign). So, his nurse case manager was walking the paperwork over to her this afternoon and hopefully will have it faxed to the CBWTU by tomorrow. Hopefully. We'll see what happens. When they get the paperwork, they have 72 hours to make the final decision. So, we could learn of something either by late Thursday or by Tuesday of next week. More waiting. :( Because of a training day on Friday and because of the holiday (Columbus Day) on Monday, the whole campus/hospital is closed--so no appointments and no new information on about going home for good. :(
Once we receive the acceptance to the CBWTU, Jake will get a report date. This date, we were told, can be anywhere between 10 to 14 days from the acceptance call. We are keeping our fingers crossed, keeping our patience, and keeping our prayers flowing that they will accept Jake and that we will be home soon.
We did have highlights today--visitors!! Our good family friends, Skip and Linda, stopped by on their way up to Vermont. It was so wonderful to see them, have lunch with them, and just to be with them. :) Jake also was surprised today by a visit from the other Ginger. :) He stopped to visit on his way up to the CBWTU. It's really great to see him again too!
Fall is in the air down here in DC. Hopefully, we will be able to be home in Vermont soon to experience the beautiful Fall there.
We had to go to his formation this morning. That's all the appointments we had today. :( However, we did get to see and talk with his nurse case manager. He made the initial call to the CBWTU (to go home for good) and they didn't deny Jake--which is great news--but they haven't given the okay either. They are waiting for the PMR (patient medical request) paperwork. All we need is his primary care physician's signature (which she already has stated that she would sign). So, his nurse case manager was walking the paperwork over to her this afternoon and hopefully will have it faxed to the CBWTU by tomorrow. Hopefully. We'll see what happens. When they get the paperwork, they have 72 hours to make the final decision. So, we could learn of something either by late Thursday or by Tuesday of next week. More waiting. :( Because of a training day on Friday and because of the holiday (Columbus Day) on Monday, the whole campus/hospital is closed--so no appointments and no new information on about going home for good. :(
Once we receive the acceptance to the CBWTU, Jake will get a report date. This date, we were told, can be anywhere between 10 to 14 days from the acceptance call. We are keeping our fingers crossed, keeping our patience, and keeping our prayers flowing that they will accept Jake and that we will be home soon.
We did have highlights today--visitors!! Our good family friends, Skip and Linda, stopped by on their way up to Vermont. It was so wonderful to see them, have lunch with them, and just to be with them. :) Jake also was surprised today by a visit from the other Ginger. :) He stopped to visit on his way up to the CBWTU. It's really great to see him again too!
Fall is in the air down here in DC. Hopefully, we will be able to be home in Vermont soon to experience the beautiful Fall there.
Sunday, October 3, 2010
Day 85 - Oct 3
The organization, CAUSE, put on a wonderful brunch for everyone here at the Mologne House today. They even had the dining hall decorated with Halloween items. :) We sat at a table with another wounded soldier and her mom, who have been here a few months longer than we have, and had a wonderful time with them. Then, other moms of soldiers came over and we all talked while Jake watched the Steelers played against the Baltimore Ravens. (The dining hall has a couple of big screen tv's in it and the game was playing.) It was really nice to talk to other moms and to hear their experiences, concerns, and frustrations. It's nice to know that I'm not alone.
A woman who was a volunteer with CAUSE came over to talk with us. She, too, is from Pittsburgh and we had a great time talking about our hometown. She was so excited to hear that she was not alone in being a Steelers fan! :) This woman's features reminded me so much of my grandmother (my mom's mom). It was hard to keep the tears from flowing because of the resemblance. She said that she has now adopted Jake as another son. :) She kept calling him "her Jakie". :) She and Jaked talked (and laughed) for quite a while--mostly all about football!
It was a nice afternoon. Oh, and by the way. . . . the Steelers lost. :( Jake is bummed. :(
A woman who was a volunteer with CAUSE came over to talk with us. She, too, is from Pittsburgh and we had a great time talking about our hometown. She was so excited to hear that she was not alone in being a Steelers fan! :) This woman's features reminded me so much of my grandmother (my mom's mom). It was hard to keep the tears from flowing because of the resemblance. She said that she has now adopted Jake as another son. :) She kept calling him "her Jakie". :) She and Jaked talked (and laughed) for quite a while--mostly all about football!
It was a nice afternoon. Oh, and by the way. . . . the Steelers lost. :( Jake is bummed. :(
Day 84 - Oct 2
What a beautiful and gorgeous day today! The sun is shining, the temperature is nice, God's creatures enjoying the day, and not a cloud in the sky! :)
Jake and I went to a BBQ that was hosted by Project HOPE (Honor Our Patriots Eternally)--a Christian Ministry Fellowship church. They had a HUGE feast and very, very friendly members. Wherever Jake and I wandered, there was always some friendly face talking to us. We had one man who came up and talked to Jake, put his hand on Jake's shoulder and kept telling him how grateful he was for his service. As we were getting ready to go down to get something to eat, he asked us if it would be okay if he prayed with us and for us. We told him that it was fine. This man gave the most beautiful prayer--his words really touched my heart. It brought tears to my eyes.
We couldn't believe the amount of food, and the different options, that were offered! There were so many people there making sure that we were being taken care of. After we finished eating, we decided to stay outside for a bit to enjoy the fresh air and the beautiful sunshine. As we were sitting by the pond, we were watching the little birds bathing in the water by the waterfall and also the fish jumping up out of the water. It was fun to see them enjoy the day too! :) We were able to talk to many different people--members of this church and also other soldiers and their families. There was also a man at the BBQ that helps make sure that servicemen get the VA benefits that they deserve.
The only downside of the day is that Jake and I got a bit sunburned. Jake got it worse than I did. :(
All in all, it has been an absolutely beautiful day!
Jake and I went to a BBQ that was hosted by Project HOPE (Honor Our Patriots Eternally)--a Christian Ministry Fellowship church. They had a HUGE feast and very, very friendly members. Wherever Jake and I wandered, there was always some friendly face talking to us. We had one man who came up and talked to Jake, put his hand on Jake's shoulder and kept telling him how grateful he was for his service. As we were getting ready to go down to get something to eat, he asked us if it would be okay if he prayed with us and for us. We told him that it was fine. This man gave the most beautiful prayer--his words really touched my heart. It brought tears to my eyes.
We couldn't believe the amount of food, and the different options, that were offered! There were so many people there making sure that we were being taken care of. After we finished eating, we decided to stay outside for a bit to enjoy the fresh air and the beautiful sunshine. As we were sitting by the pond, we were watching the little birds bathing in the water by the waterfall and also the fish jumping up out of the water. It was fun to see them enjoy the day too! :) We were able to talk to many different people--members of this church and also other soldiers and their families. There was also a man at the BBQ that helps make sure that servicemen get the VA benefits that they deserve.
The only downside of the day is that Jake and I got a bit sunburned. Jake got it worse than I did. :(
All in all, it has been an absolutely beautiful day!
Friday, October 1, 2010
Day 80-83 Sept 29, Sept 30, Oct 1
I know that it's been a few days, but there hasn't been much to write about since Jake didn't have any appointments the past couple of days. :( We both have been quite bored these past few days, but hung on to our sanity--barely.
Jake was visited on Wednesday by his Staff Sergeant from Afghanistan who was visiting all the Vermont soldiers that are down here. That's about the most exciting thing that happened that day!
Late Wednesday and most of the day Thursday, Jake decided to do things on his own again and went cold turkey off all of his meds. :( He said that he hasn't been experiencing much pain lately, and knows that the plan is for him to get off all medications, so he thought it would be wise to get going on that plan. Bad idea! He had a very hard time sleeping that night and he was sick to his stomach the next day and had bad headaches. Finally, in the late afternoon, he asked for his pain meds. Within an hour, he started to feel better and realized that going cold turkey was not a good idea. That was the excitement for Thursday.
Oh, we did have another excitement on Thursday--the bad storm. It rained all day long--even into the night--and it was a hard rain. The wind was blowing quite hard also. As I looked at the weather report on the internet, I saw that there was not only a flood warning and watch out for us, but also a tornado watch. YIKES!! It was quite the storm! We were glad that we didn't have appointments to go to so that we didn't have to go out in it. It's not fun pushing/wheeling a wheelchair when it is downpouring and the wind is blowing hard.
When we went in to see his primary care doctor this morning, Jake explained to her what he did about "cold turkeying" the meds. She got a smile on her face, shook her head, and told him that it was not a very good idea to do that. He laughed and told her that he learned his lesson. So, the plan is to gradually decrease the dosage of his meds--one at a time. The plan started today, and so far, things are going well. She also gave us good news that as soon as she receives the paperwork from his nurse case manager (for him to go home for good) that she would sign it right away. She said that she wants to get him home. :) We really like her--even before she stated that! Our hopes are high right now. :)
Jake also had an appointment with the audiology department for a hearing test. With the blast, he was experiencing some ringing in his ears. So, they wanted to make sure that his hearing was okay. He passed with flying colors! :) The ringing has stopped also--which is good news.
While at the hospital, we stopped by the PT office and got an appointment scheduled for a reassessment for his physical therapy. We had to wait for a referral from his primary care doctor (because he was gone for 30 days) before we could schedule any appointments. During this reassessment, Jake will discuss with the Colonel about having aquatic therapy. Hopefully the Colonel will agree and get it scheduled for Jake. We also need to go back to the hospital on Monday to schedule another OT reassessment. This is to determine whether Jake can handle all his ADL's (daily living skills) by himself or if he still needs an NMA (non-medical assistant--me).
When we returned back to our room, his nurse case manager called and gave us some good news and some more hope. He finished the paperwork for the CBWTU (going home for good) and was making a call to them today to discuss Jake!! YIPPEE!!! He said that as soon as he has a report date and time, that he would call Jake back. So, we are waiting to hear back from him. This is where we have to use our patience--the waiting game. That's the excitement for today.
The weekend starts now. It should be a quiet one, but you never know!
Jake was visited on Wednesday by his Staff Sergeant from Afghanistan who was visiting all the Vermont soldiers that are down here. That's about the most exciting thing that happened that day!
Late Wednesday and most of the day Thursday, Jake decided to do things on his own again and went cold turkey off all of his meds. :( He said that he hasn't been experiencing much pain lately, and knows that the plan is for him to get off all medications, so he thought it would be wise to get going on that plan. Bad idea! He had a very hard time sleeping that night and he was sick to his stomach the next day and had bad headaches. Finally, in the late afternoon, he asked for his pain meds. Within an hour, he started to feel better and realized that going cold turkey was not a good idea. That was the excitement for Thursday.
Oh, we did have another excitement on Thursday--the bad storm. It rained all day long--even into the night--and it was a hard rain. The wind was blowing quite hard also. As I looked at the weather report on the internet, I saw that there was not only a flood warning and watch out for us, but also a tornado watch. YIKES!! It was quite the storm! We were glad that we didn't have appointments to go to so that we didn't have to go out in it. It's not fun pushing/wheeling a wheelchair when it is downpouring and the wind is blowing hard.
When we went in to see his primary care doctor this morning, Jake explained to her what he did about "cold turkeying" the meds. She got a smile on her face, shook her head, and told him that it was not a very good idea to do that. He laughed and told her that he learned his lesson. So, the plan is to gradually decrease the dosage of his meds--one at a time. The plan started today, and so far, things are going well. She also gave us good news that as soon as she receives the paperwork from his nurse case manager (for him to go home for good) that she would sign it right away. She said that she wants to get him home. :) We really like her--even before she stated that! Our hopes are high right now. :)
Jake also had an appointment with the audiology department for a hearing test. With the blast, he was experiencing some ringing in his ears. So, they wanted to make sure that his hearing was okay. He passed with flying colors! :) The ringing has stopped also--which is good news.
While at the hospital, we stopped by the PT office and got an appointment scheduled for a reassessment for his physical therapy. We had to wait for a referral from his primary care doctor (because he was gone for 30 days) before we could schedule any appointments. During this reassessment, Jake will discuss with the Colonel about having aquatic therapy. Hopefully the Colonel will agree and get it scheduled for Jake. We also need to go back to the hospital on Monday to schedule another OT reassessment. This is to determine whether Jake can handle all his ADL's (daily living skills) by himself or if he still needs an NMA (non-medical assistant--me).
When we returned back to our room, his nurse case manager called and gave us some good news and some more hope. He finished the paperwork for the CBWTU (going home for good) and was making a call to them today to discuss Jake!! YIPPEE!!! He said that as soon as he has a report date and time, that he would call Jake back. So, we are waiting to hear back from him. This is where we have to use our patience--the waiting game. That's the excitement for today.
The weekend starts now. It should be a quiet one, but you never know!
Wednesday, September 29, 2010
Day 79 - Sept 28
Tuesday, September 28
Since Jake didn't have any appointments today, he decided to sleep in. Well, sleeping in until 7:55 a.m. when he had to get up and call one of his Sergeants to check in with him. Every day (other than the weekends) Jake either checks in at formations (Mon., Wed., & Fri.) or has to check in by phone call (Tues., & Thurs.). He wanted to go back to sleep after the phone call but couldn't. :(
In the afternoon, we headed over to Bethesda to see the medic (who was in his truck) and his wife. It was a great visit!! It was wonderful to see how well he is progressing in his recovery, to talk to them both, and to laugh with them. :)
This evening we didn't have to worry about what was being served in the dinning area. Yeah!! There was a BBQ that was put on by the Cause Organization and the Discovery Channel people. It was nice to be outside, talk to others, and eat good food.
Since Jake didn't have any appointments today, he decided to sleep in. Well, sleeping in until 7:55 a.m. when he had to get up and call one of his Sergeants to check in with him. Every day (other than the weekends) Jake either checks in at formations (Mon., Wed., & Fri.) or has to check in by phone call (Tues., & Thurs.). He wanted to go back to sleep after the phone call but couldn't. :(
In the afternoon, we headed over to Bethesda to see the medic (who was in his truck) and his wife. It was a great visit!! It was wonderful to see how well he is progressing in his recovery, to talk to them both, and to laugh with them. :)
This evening we didn't have to worry about what was being served in the dinning area. Yeah!! There was a BBQ that was put on by the Cause Organization and the Discovery Channel people. It was nice to be outside, talk to others, and eat good food.
Day 78 - Sept 27
This morning started early by heading over to the hospital for Jake's doctor's appointment. He needed to get some refills on his medications and she wanted to make sure that he was doing okay after con leave. She was happy to hear that he has stopped taking some meds and wants to start weaning him down some on others. We had a "to-do" list of things we wanted to get accomplished while over at the hospital. We were able to cross off quite a bit while we were there and were going to cross off more, but Jake was starting to wear down and not feel so good, so we went back to our room for him to rest for a bit.
After he rested, we went over to get his mail and to talk to his nurse case manager. We were very happy to hear that he almost has the paperwork packet done for the CBWTU (Community Based Warrior Transition Unit). This is the unit that Jake will be attached to for him to come home for good. There's still a lot to be done, and, we have to see if they will accept him or not, but at least the paperwork is getting done. We are keeping our fingers crossed that everything will go well and that we will be home sometime in October.
His nurse case manager is also busy getting appointments scheduled again for Jake--especially his physical therapy. So, this week is going to be a little bit of an easy one for Jake with not having many appointments. However, it may be a little bit of a boring one for him too because he wont be as busy.
When we returned back to our room, I saw what options were being offered by the dinning hall for dinner. None of it looked appetizing, so I told Jake that there is no way that I can eat another piece of pizza or a ham/cheese pannini sandwich (everyday options if you don't like what they are serving). So, we decided to catch the shuttle bus to Silver Spring and went out for dinner. We went to the Copper Canyon Grill--wow, what amazing food they have!! It was wonderful!! We savored every bite!! :)
Spending time with Jake, talking, laughing, AND, him paying for it all--what a great evening! :)
After he rested, we went over to get his mail and to talk to his nurse case manager. We were very happy to hear that he almost has the paperwork packet done for the CBWTU (Community Based Warrior Transition Unit). This is the unit that Jake will be attached to for him to come home for good. There's still a lot to be done, and, we have to see if they will accept him or not, but at least the paperwork is getting done. We are keeping our fingers crossed that everything will go well and that we will be home sometime in October.
His nurse case manager is also busy getting appointments scheduled again for Jake--especially his physical therapy. So, this week is going to be a little bit of an easy one for Jake with not having many appointments. However, it may be a little bit of a boring one for him too because he wont be as busy.
When we returned back to our room, I saw what options were being offered by the dinning hall for dinner. None of it looked appetizing, so I told Jake that there is no way that I can eat another piece of pizza or a ham/cheese pannini sandwich (everyday options if you don't like what they are serving). So, we decided to catch the shuttle bus to Silver Spring and went out for dinner. We went to the Copper Canyon Grill--wow, what amazing food they have!! It was wonderful!! We savored every bite!! :)
Spending time with Jake, talking, laughing, AND, him paying for it all--what a great evening! :)
Sunday, September 26, 2010
Day 77 - Sep 26
A cloudy rainy day, but the rays of sunshine peak through every so often. It's beautiful to see and to feel the warmth of the sun.
Another peaceful and quiet day before the hub-bub of the week begins. Jake and I visited with the parents of one of his buddies who is here as a result of his injuries. It was nice to talk to them and to laugh. Jake then went off with his buddy and two other friends to spend time together watching football games at a local gathering place. I stayed back to have some quiet time of my own and to let Jake be on his own without mom hovering over him. :) He has been texting me, though, to make sure that I am okay and to keep me posted on the scores of the games--especially on the Steelers game. Yes, we are true Steelers fans. :) And, yes, the Steelers won! :)
Jake has an early morning appointment with his primary care physician tomorrow. As of right now, that is his only appointment. But, we have learned from the past that it never stays that way. With coming back from con leave, he still has to check in with his sergeant and with his nurse case manager. I'm sure that when we walk out of his nurse case manager's office, Jake will have the rest of the day filled with things to do and the rest of the week filled with appointments. This is good though. Every appointment means another step in his recovery and possibly another step to him being transferred home for good.
We are also hoping that his physical therapist here will start him on aquatic therapy like he was receiving back in Vermont. The aquatic therapy was heaven for Jake. :) He loved being in the pool and to be able to use his legs to "walk" in the water. That type of therapy seems to be the most beneficial to him--physically and mentally.
Just as the sun's rays peak through the cloudy sky, little rays of hope and promise peak through each day for Jake.
Another peaceful and quiet day before the hub-bub of the week begins. Jake and I visited with the parents of one of his buddies who is here as a result of his injuries. It was nice to talk to them and to laugh. Jake then went off with his buddy and two other friends to spend time together watching football games at a local gathering place. I stayed back to have some quiet time of my own and to let Jake be on his own without mom hovering over him. :) He has been texting me, though, to make sure that I am okay and to keep me posted on the scores of the games--especially on the Steelers game. Yes, we are true Steelers fans. :) And, yes, the Steelers won! :)
Jake has an early morning appointment with his primary care physician tomorrow. As of right now, that is his only appointment. But, we have learned from the past that it never stays that way. With coming back from con leave, he still has to check in with his sergeant and with his nurse case manager. I'm sure that when we walk out of his nurse case manager's office, Jake will have the rest of the day filled with things to do and the rest of the week filled with appointments. This is good though. Every appointment means another step in his recovery and possibly another step to him being transferred home for good.
We are also hoping that his physical therapist here will start him on aquatic therapy like he was receiving back in Vermont. The aquatic therapy was heaven for Jake. :) He loved being in the pool and to be able to use his legs to "walk" in the water. That type of therapy seems to be the most beneficial to him--physically and mentally.
Just as the sun's rays peak through the cloudy sky, little rays of hope and promise peak through each day for Jake.
Day 76 - Sep 25
A very relaxing day. It's good though because we both need the rest to get over from these colds.
The maid came to clean our room (they have to clean the rooms every day here), so Jake and I decided to go outside for a bit. It was a beautiful day--not too hot or humid. It was nice to get out into the sunshine. As I was sitting on one of the benches, I looked around and saw these amazing soldiers (with their many different injuries) going to and fro. It's a totally different existence here. We seem to be secluded from the outside world. Being here every day, we see the effects of war. It's sad. I then realized how many people do not even know of this "other existence." How many people don't even realize the cost that this war has had. Before Jake was injured, I had no idea that there was this "other existence.". I knew, from the news, that there were injured soldiers, but they didn't have a face, a name, a family....
I am so grateful to each of these brave men and women who have sacrificed so much for their country. My heart and gratitude go out to them, to their families, and to those families who have lost loved ones. We are truly blessed to be in this great country, to have the freedoms that we enjoy, and to have such amazing men and women serving our country.
Every Friday evening, outside the gates of the hospital complex, there are people standing there with signs and flags. They are not protesting the war. They are there to honor and support our military members. Their signs have nothing written on them against the war. What is written on them are words of support, love, honor, and encouragement. It's nice to see that type of demonstration.
As we were flying back down here yesterday, we saw other members of the military--some in uniform, others not. Jake went up to these men/women, shook their hands, and thanked them for their service. He later told me that a lot of people come up to him to thank him for his service because they see his injuries, but he said that all soldiers need to hear the thanks also. So, he makes a point that whenever he sees any service member, he thanks them. What a great example to follow. I'm going to be more aware now of all service members, veterans included, and thank them for the service they are rendering and have rendered.
I owe it to them.
The maid came to clean our room (they have to clean the rooms every day here), so Jake and I decided to go outside for a bit. It was a beautiful day--not too hot or humid. It was nice to get out into the sunshine. As I was sitting on one of the benches, I looked around and saw these amazing soldiers (with their many different injuries) going to and fro. It's a totally different existence here. We seem to be secluded from the outside world. Being here every day, we see the effects of war. It's sad. I then realized how many people do not even know of this "other existence." How many people don't even realize the cost that this war has had. Before Jake was injured, I had no idea that there was this "other existence.". I knew, from the news, that there were injured soldiers, but they didn't have a face, a name, a family....
I am so grateful to each of these brave men and women who have sacrificed so much for their country. My heart and gratitude go out to them, to their families, and to those families who have lost loved ones. We are truly blessed to be in this great country, to have the freedoms that we enjoy, and to have such amazing men and women serving our country.
Every Friday evening, outside the gates of the hospital complex, there are people standing there with signs and flags. They are not protesting the war. They are there to honor and support our military members. Their signs have nothing written on them against the war. What is written on them are words of support, love, honor, and encouragement. It's nice to see that type of demonstration.
As we were flying back down here yesterday, we saw other members of the military--some in uniform, others not. Jake went up to these men/women, shook their hands, and thanked them for their service. He later told me that a lot of people come up to him to thank him for his service because they see his injuries, but he said that all soldiers need to hear the thanks also. So, he makes a point that whenever he sees any service member, he thanks them. What a great example to follow. I'm going to be more aware now of all service members, veterans included, and thank them for the service they are rendering and have rendered.
I owe it to them.
Saturday, September 25, 2010
Day 75 - Sept. 24
We had the best time being home on con leave!! It was so wonderful to be with family once again, to be with friends, and to be in our own home. But, it had to come to an end--and we knew that. We just wished that it didn't come up on us so fast. The trip back was a pretty smooth sailing.
Jake and I are back in DC at the Mologne House. I was very worried that we wouldn't have our room since we were gone for so long, but I should of had more faith and trust that everything would work out. And, it did. Other than our room keys not working at first, we are all settled back in and will start the "routine" once again on Monday. :(
One of Jake's friends from his original unit is here also. He was injured a few weeks after Jake. The two of them sat in the dining area and just caught up on things. It was really nice to see Jake's friend again, to see how well he is progressing, and to see the smile on Jake's face as they talked.
We both are extremely tired right now. It's been a long day and we, along with the rest of the family, are getting over a pretty bad cold. So, off to bed we go. We love you all! Good night.
Jake and I are back in DC at the Mologne House. I was very worried that we wouldn't have our room since we were gone for so long, but I should of had more faith and trust that everything would work out. And, it did. Other than our room keys not working at first, we are all settled back in and will start the "routine" once again on Monday. :(
One of Jake's friends from his original unit is here also. He was injured a few weeks after Jake. The two of them sat in the dining area and just caught up on things. It was really nice to see Jake's friend again, to see how well he is progressing, and to see the smile on Jake's face as they talked.
We both are extremely tired right now. It's been a long day and we, along with the rest of the family, are getting over a pretty bad cold. So, off to bed we go. We love you all! Good night.
Friday, August 27, 2010
Day 56 - Aug 26
Home Sweet Home!!! :) There is nothing sweeter than being home with your family and friends. Jake is in heaven right now--as is his mom! :)
We left early in the morning on the shuttle van to the airport. We made great time, even with making a stop at another hotel to pick up another passenger. The other passenger and Jake had a nice talk on the way to the airport--he also served in the military a few years ago and served a tour of duty in Afghanistan.
Getting checked in wasn't a problem. Going through security was easier than we thought it would be. Everyone was extremely helpful and respectful to us--especially to Jake. They had to run the wand over him and his wheelchair and also give him a pat down. We brought home with us his medal and coins (Jake received a Purple Heart and special coins)--which the man running the x-ray machine took extra special care of.
We then traveled to our gate and waited to board our flight. We were unsure that his wheelchair would make it into the airplane so he could transfer to his seat--but it did! We all (even the flight attendants and gate workers) were surprised that everything worked well and was easier than we thought. We gate checked his wheelchair after he was seated and off we went! Jake gave me a hard time falling asleep as we were taking off (I've been a very tired mom lately), but as I woke up after we were in the air, I looked over at him and here he was fast asleep!! I just started laughing--he, who was so excited to get home and wanted to stay awake during the flight, was so out of it that his head was down on his chest! He woke up, looked at me confused (I had a huge grin on my face), and then laid his head on my shoulder and slept for the remainder of the flight. He didn't even fully wake up until we landed in VT. I had to wake him to tell him that we were home. He said he couldn't believe he fell asleep--he was reading his book and didn't get to the third sentence before he was out! :)
We were the last ones off the plane and it took us longer getting off than getting on. :( We had a small difficulty with his wheelchair but he fixed the problem and got off the plane. He wheeled his chair as fast as he could because he saw waiting outside the gate area was dad, three of his sisters, six of his nieces and nephews, and two family friends. :) They were waving and had huge grins on their faces when they saw him. As I looked at Jake, he was also greeting them with a huge smile on his face. :) It was a very joyful and tearful reunion with his loved ones. We are finally home--where we should be--with people who love us.
We came directly home and just relaxed. There were wheelchair rides with the nieces and nephews. :) They even had to take turns pushing Jake around the house! :) It was so cute to see these kids having a wonderful time with their Uncle.
We decided to go out to dinner--Texas Roadhouse--to celebrate Jake's homecoming. As we were sitting there, two gentlemen came up and shook Jake's hand and thanked him for his service. They, too, were veterans (they were wearing their veteran baseball caps like Jake was wearing his), and one of them was also a receiver of a purple heart. The man who received the purple heart was very touched and told Jake that he and his wife were taking care of Jake's dinner. Jake was very grateful. When the waitress gave us our bill, she told us that the gentleman did pay for Jake's meal so she took it off our bill. What a wonderful gesture. We didn't expect anyone to do that. What a very sweet man.
The night drew on and some family members left. We spent some time playing a card game, talking and laughing. It's so good to be back home with those we love and who love us. Like Dorothy said in the Wizard of Oz--"There's no place like home!"
Wednesday, August 25, 2010
Day 55 - Aug 25
I've been thinking of that song from "Annie"--"Tomorrow! Tomorrow! I love ya Tomorrow! You're always a day away!" :) TOMORROW WE ARE COMING HOME FOR A MONTH!!! :) We both are sooooooo excited!!!
This day has been a very busy one, but a good one. It first started out by finding out that one of Jake's buddies from his platoon (from a different accident) is out of the hospital and is staying here at the Mologne House. :) In fact, he is one floor above us. We ate breakfast with him and his mom and then we all went over to formation together. It was really nice to meet his mom and talk to her.
We had to leave formation a bit early to meet with Jacqui (OT) for an assessment. It was so wonderful to see her again and to hear her and Jake tease each other and laugh together. :) She loved her gifts from VT!! We then headed over to the barber shop so that Jake could get a haircut. He looks so good in his military cut. :) Well, at least I think so!
Off to another appointment with the pain doctor. FINALLY, we got everything worked out with his pain medications! It was such a mess these past few days with different doctors and nurses--and in one simple visit, everything was solved. Now we will wait and see if it works. His appointment with TBI was soon and in the hospital, where the pain doctor is located, so we decided to grab some lunch at Subway (in the hospital) and eat outside. It was such a beautiful, beautiful day! The humidity was low, the temperature was in the low 80's, partly cloudy, and a gentle breeze was blowing. It was so nice to sit outside and just enjoy the day. :)
We stopped in to see his nurse case manager (NCM) after all of the appointments to make sure everything was set for Jake's leave. We need some equipment at home and need a referral for PT. Well, our fingers are crossed that his NCM was able to get it all arranged. Like I've said before in different posts, there is a lot of paperwork with the military--even for this. Guess we'll see if he was successful when we get home!
We are all packed now and ready for our "Tomorrow"!! :)
This day has been a very busy one, but a good one. It first started out by finding out that one of Jake's buddies from his platoon (from a different accident) is out of the hospital and is staying here at the Mologne House. :) In fact, he is one floor above us. We ate breakfast with him and his mom and then we all went over to formation together. It was really nice to meet his mom and talk to her.
We had to leave formation a bit early to meet with Jacqui (OT) for an assessment. It was so wonderful to see her again and to hear her and Jake tease each other and laugh together. :) She loved her gifts from VT!! We then headed over to the barber shop so that Jake could get a haircut. He looks so good in his military cut. :) Well, at least I think so!
Off to another appointment with the pain doctor. FINALLY, we got everything worked out with his pain medications! It was such a mess these past few days with different doctors and nurses--and in one simple visit, everything was solved. Now we will wait and see if it works. His appointment with TBI was soon and in the hospital, where the pain doctor is located, so we decided to grab some lunch at Subway (in the hospital) and eat outside. It was such a beautiful, beautiful day! The humidity was low, the temperature was in the low 80's, partly cloudy, and a gentle breeze was blowing. It was so nice to sit outside and just enjoy the day. :)
We stopped in to see his nurse case manager (NCM) after all of the appointments to make sure everything was set for Jake's leave. We need some equipment at home and need a referral for PT. Well, our fingers are crossed that his NCM was able to get it all arranged. Like I've said before in different posts, there is a lot of paperwork with the military--even for this. Guess we'll see if he was successful when we get home!
We are all packed now and ready for our "Tomorrow"!! :)
Tuesday, August 24, 2010
Day 54 - Aug 24
What a difference today was as compared to yesterday!! :)
Jake slept really well last night and didn't experience as much pain as he has the last week or so. :) The extra dosage of the sleeping aid helped! It was great to see him happy and even joking around with me. :)
He awoke this morning as the result of a phone call from his Sgt. He told Jake that his leave forms are all signed and ready for us to pick up and get our tickets arranged! :) We couldn't believe it!! Yesterday we were told that we had to get a dental exam and today they are saying that everything is done and we can proceed. This news made Jake happy and hopeful. As we were eating breakfast, Sgt. called him again and told him that he was bringing the papers directly to Jake in the dining hall at Mologne. Again, we were shocked! He gave them to Jake with a huge smile on his face and told him to have a great leave. :) We asked him about the dental exam. He said to try to get it before we left, but if we couldn't, then get it when we come back down. I think our mouths just dropped. What a difference from yesterday.
We headed over to the hospital to see Jacqui (his inpatient occupational therapist) to set up an assessment that he has to have every month, and, to give her some gifts from VT. She wasn't there, but the assessment appointment has been set for tomorrow morning. As we were strolling into the OT room, Jake's foot accidentally got bent back underneath his chair--OUCH!! He was in extreme pain. :( We think that he tore some scar tissue because of how much pain he was in. We wanted to get him back to our room to rest, but we had to get our flights arranged. So, after taking some pain meds, we were on the run again to get plane tickets.
Our flight arrangements and our transportation are all set! We are definitely coming home on Thursday!!! YIPPEE!!! YAHOO!!!! :) Just seeing the travel itinerary in our hands brought smiles to our faces. :)
We returned to our room and Jake rested while I did laundry. We got lunch and headed over to see his nurse case manager. The nurse case manager was frantically writing things down so Jake would have everything he needs for his leave. We tried all day yesterday to get answers from him so everything could be ready back home for Jake to continue his recovery. It looked like his nurse finally realized time is short and he needed to get on the ball. It is indicative of how reactionary rather than proactive it is here. We will need to stop in his office sometime tomorrow to make sure everything is all set.
We also stopped back at his Sgt.'s office to find out where Jake needed to pick up all his uniforms. His Sgt. was on the ball and had Jake's duffel bag with his uniforms just sitting there waiting. Now this man is proactive :) After talking to him for a bit about Jake's leave, Sgt. asked Jake what is in VT. We smiled and proceeded to tell him about maple syrup, teddy bears and the like. :) Sgt. was very interested in the maple syrup and in the VT teddy bears. Jake told him we will bring some VT products back down with us. Sgt. smiled and said that he has pancakes almost every morning! We laughed and said that we will definitely have VT maple syrup for him. :)
I had to break some sad and terrible news to Jake. There were two VT National Guardsman killed in Afghanistan. :( Our hearts just sank and our thoughts and prayers immediately went out to the families. We can't wait until our soldiers are back home in VT safe and sound. We constantly pray for them and for their families.
We are very excited to come back home, but wish that all of our soldiers could come home too.
Jake slept really well last night and didn't experience as much pain as he has the last week or so. :) The extra dosage of the sleeping aid helped! It was great to see him happy and even joking around with me. :)
He awoke this morning as the result of a phone call from his Sgt. He told Jake that his leave forms are all signed and ready for us to pick up and get our tickets arranged! :) We couldn't believe it!! Yesterday we were told that we had to get a dental exam and today they are saying that everything is done and we can proceed. This news made Jake happy and hopeful. As we were eating breakfast, Sgt. called him again and told him that he was bringing the papers directly to Jake in the dining hall at Mologne. Again, we were shocked! He gave them to Jake with a huge smile on his face and told him to have a great leave. :) We asked him about the dental exam. He said to try to get it before we left, but if we couldn't, then get it when we come back down. I think our mouths just dropped. What a difference from yesterday.
We headed over to the hospital to see Jacqui (his inpatient occupational therapist) to set up an assessment that he has to have every month, and, to give her some gifts from VT. She wasn't there, but the assessment appointment has been set for tomorrow morning. As we were strolling into the OT room, Jake's foot accidentally got bent back underneath his chair--OUCH!! He was in extreme pain. :( We think that he tore some scar tissue because of how much pain he was in. We wanted to get him back to our room to rest, but we had to get our flights arranged. So, after taking some pain meds, we were on the run again to get plane tickets.
Our flight arrangements and our transportation are all set! We are definitely coming home on Thursday!!! YIPPEE!!! YAHOO!!!! :) Just seeing the travel itinerary in our hands brought smiles to our faces. :)
We returned to our room and Jake rested while I did laundry. We got lunch and headed over to see his nurse case manager. The nurse case manager was frantically writing things down so Jake would have everything he needs for his leave. We tried all day yesterday to get answers from him so everything could be ready back home for Jake to continue his recovery. It looked like his nurse finally realized time is short and he needed to get on the ball. It is indicative of how reactionary rather than proactive it is here. We will need to stop in his office sometime tomorrow to make sure everything is all set.
We also stopped back at his Sgt.'s office to find out where Jake needed to pick up all his uniforms. His Sgt. was on the ball and had Jake's duffel bag with his uniforms just sitting there waiting. Now this man is proactive :) After talking to him for a bit about Jake's leave, Sgt. asked Jake what is in VT. We smiled and proceeded to tell him about maple syrup, teddy bears and the like. :) Sgt. was very interested in the maple syrup and in the VT teddy bears. Jake told him we will bring some VT products back down with us. Sgt. smiled and said that he has pancakes almost every morning! We laughed and said that we will definitely have VT maple syrup for him. :)
I had to break some sad and terrible news to Jake. There were two VT National Guardsman killed in Afghanistan. :( Our hearts just sank and our thoughts and prayers immediately went out to the families. We can't wait until our soldiers are back home in VT safe and sound. We constantly pray for them and for their families.
We are very excited to come back home, but wish that all of our soldiers could come home too.
Day 53 - Aug 23
UGH!!!! What a day!! :( Emotions have been everywhere today--excitement, pain, frustration, happiness, anger--and the list goes on and on. :(
After formation this morning, we headed over to PT. They added weights to Jake's ankles during the exercises today to start building up his muscles again. It was quite painful for him, but he knows that it's a step that he needs to take. We then headed over to see Sgt. to get the final con leave paperwork so that we could go back to the hospital to get our flights worked out.
Sgt. didn't have good news for us. :( The commander will not sign Jake's leave form because his dental profile is amber--which means that Jake has to get a dental exam before he can leave. We can't believe this! A dental exam to go home?? Come on. He's going for a vacation and is coming back. Why can't he get the exam when he comes back here??
I am so frustrated. 2 1/2 weeks ago, during inprocessing, the dental guy told Jake that his dental profile was green--which means that he was fine and didn't need an exam -- and, that he didn't need another exam until January 2011. So, what happened in these past weeks to change his assessment!!??
We then headed over to dental to get a form stating that he was green. The lady at the desk listened to Jake's plea and asked him if the man who signed his inprocessing paperwork was a civilian. Jake replied that he was. She just bowed her head and shook it. Not a good sign!! She told Jake that he needed to come back early tomorrow morning because he does need the exam. Oh boy.
We also went and saw his Nurse Case Manager about other questions and issues about Jake's leave. That was another run around--no answers to any of our questions--just more questions. :( It was so confusing and so frustrating!! Jake has been having some issues with pain this past week and has been trying to get answers and help for the pain. There was a huge miscommunication about Jake's pain meds, which ended up with something being changed, which has caused this increase in pain. So, the nurse case manager made an appointment with a nurse practioner to get Jake some relief. The appointment was a total joke!
She said that she couldn't do anything because the pain doctor wrote the script and he has to be the one that makes the changes. UGH!!!! Jake has been in tears all morning because of this whole issue and his eyes filled up again when he heard this. All she could do was to increase the dosage of a sleeping pill to try to help him sleep better. Once again, no help for the pain. She did offer him a shot that would help him the rest of the day but Jake refused it because it wouldn't help him when he needs it the most--at night. So, Jake has to wait until Wednesday when he has an appointment with the pain doctor. Two more nights of awful pain. :(
Jake's frustration level is very high today. My heart goes out to him. :(
The best part of the day? We went upstairs to see Matt (Jake's inpatient physical therapist) and to give him some gifts from VT. :) This was the first time that I saw Jake smile, laugh, and joke around all day. It was great to see those two kid around with one another again. :) This visit was exactly what Jake needed. Thank you, Matt!!
Hopefully Jake will get a good night's sleep tonight and have a better start on the day tomorrow.
After formation this morning, we headed over to PT. They added weights to Jake's ankles during the exercises today to start building up his muscles again. It was quite painful for him, but he knows that it's a step that he needs to take. We then headed over to see Sgt. to get the final con leave paperwork so that we could go back to the hospital to get our flights worked out.
Sgt. didn't have good news for us. :( The commander will not sign Jake's leave form because his dental profile is amber--which means that Jake has to get a dental exam before he can leave. We can't believe this! A dental exam to go home?? Come on. He's going for a vacation and is coming back. Why can't he get the exam when he comes back here??
I am so frustrated. 2 1/2 weeks ago, during inprocessing, the dental guy told Jake that his dental profile was green--which means that he was fine and didn't need an exam -- and, that he didn't need another exam until January 2011. So, what happened in these past weeks to change his assessment!!??
We then headed over to dental to get a form stating that he was green. The lady at the desk listened to Jake's plea and asked him if the man who signed his inprocessing paperwork was a civilian. Jake replied that he was. She just bowed her head and shook it. Not a good sign!! She told Jake that he needed to come back early tomorrow morning because he does need the exam. Oh boy.
We also went and saw his Nurse Case Manager about other questions and issues about Jake's leave. That was another run around--no answers to any of our questions--just more questions. :( It was so confusing and so frustrating!! Jake has been having some issues with pain this past week and has been trying to get answers and help for the pain. There was a huge miscommunication about Jake's pain meds, which ended up with something being changed, which has caused this increase in pain. So, the nurse case manager made an appointment with a nurse practioner to get Jake some relief. The appointment was a total joke!
She said that she couldn't do anything because the pain doctor wrote the script and he has to be the one that makes the changes. UGH!!!! Jake has been in tears all morning because of this whole issue and his eyes filled up again when he heard this. All she could do was to increase the dosage of a sleeping pill to try to help him sleep better. Once again, no help for the pain. She did offer him a shot that would help him the rest of the day but Jake refused it because it wouldn't help him when he needs it the most--at night. So, Jake has to wait until Wednesday when he has an appointment with the pain doctor. Two more nights of awful pain. :(
Jake's frustration level is very high today. My heart goes out to him. :(
The best part of the day? We went upstairs to see Matt (Jake's inpatient physical therapist) and to give him some gifts from VT. :) This was the first time that I saw Jake smile, laugh, and joke around all day. It was great to see those two kid around with one another again. :) This visit was exactly what Jake needed. Thank you, Matt!!
Hopefully Jake will get a good night's sleep tonight and have a better start on the day tomorrow.
Sunday, August 22, 2010
Day 52 - Aug 22
Jake has been so happy today. :) He had a great time last night. He went out with the other "ginger" and their Lieutenant (they call him "LT"). They didn't get back until late. It's nice to see him happy and smiling.
Another laid back day--ahhhh. . . :) Jake slept in pretty late this morning--hmmm . . . wonder why!? He relaxed and showered and then relaxed more. The phone in our room rang--Jake had such a surprised look on his face! I was wondering who was on the other end that caused that look. All of a sudden I heard him say, "I'll be right down!" I asked who was on the other end as he hung up the phone. He had a huge smile on his face and said that it was Sgt.--the sergeant who was in his truck with him. He said he was downstairs at the BBQ looking for Jake. Both of us were surprised because we just saw Sarg the other day in the hospital. He received a day pass from the hospital and was in his wheelchair roaming about with his parents. He looked so great! It was absolutely wonderful to see him there! :)
We had a nice time at the BBQ with Sarg, his parents, LT, and the other ginger. :) The BBQ was put on by the Rolling Thunder organization. It made up of all different types of people, but are veterans. Most ride motorcycles, but riding is not a prerequisite. Their main focus is to bring full accountability for POW's and MIA's of all wars. They remind the government, the media, and all people that "We Will Not Forget". I talked to some of them at the BBQ and they are wonderful men and women. One man had tears in his eyes when he talked to Jake and Sarg. He kept telling them "thank you for their service." He did not serve in a war, but he was an Army brat and his dad and brothers served. The music was the best I've heard at all the BBQ's held here. The food is always great, but today, the company was the best. :)
LT showed us pictures of the destroyed vehicle that these men were in when injured. :( He also showed us the crater the bomb created in the road. Unbelievable! My heart sank. It truly is a miracle that these men are alive. Our hearts, thoughts, and prayers go out to the family of the wonderful soldier (and friend to these men) who lost his life in the blast.
After the BBQ, the CAUSE organization was giving free massages to soldiers and family members. They come here about twice a month to give free massages. Jake said he really wanted one for his shoulders and back because of all the pushing he does in the wheelchair. So, he signed up! :) Boy, he was in heaven! His muscles felt so much better after the massage. He kept trying to get me to get a different type of massage--it was a gentle touch/relaxing/energy type of massage. Well, he was very convincing and I signed up. It was a totally different experience--not a deep tissue type of massage, but it was very relaxing.
This evening had a great ending for Jake. The cafeteria at the Mologne House had one of Jake's favorite--"Cheesecake Factory" brand Cheesecake! :) Quite the ending to a great weekend!
Another laid back day--ahhhh. . . :) Jake slept in pretty late this morning--hmmm . . . wonder why!? He relaxed and showered and then relaxed more. The phone in our room rang--Jake had such a surprised look on his face! I was wondering who was on the other end that caused that look. All of a sudden I heard him say, "I'll be right down!" I asked who was on the other end as he hung up the phone. He had a huge smile on his face and said that it was Sgt.--the sergeant who was in his truck with him. He said he was downstairs at the BBQ looking for Jake. Both of us were surprised because we just saw Sarg the other day in the hospital. He received a day pass from the hospital and was in his wheelchair roaming about with his parents. He looked so great! It was absolutely wonderful to see him there! :)
We had a nice time at the BBQ with Sarg, his parents, LT, and the other ginger. :) The BBQ was put on by the Rolling Thunder organization. It made up of all different types of people, but are veterans. Most ride motorcycles, but riding is not a prerequisite. Their main focus is to bring full accountability for POW's and MIA's of all wars. They remind the government, the media, and all people that "We Will Not Forget". I talked to some of them at the BBQ and they are wonderful men and women. One man had tears in his eyes when he talked to Jake and Sarg. He kept telling them "thank you for their service." He did not serve in a war, but he was an Army brat and his dad and brothers served. The music was the best I've heard at all the BBQ's held here. The food is always great, but today, the company was the best. :)
LT showed us pictures of the destroyed vehicle that these men were in when injured. :( He also showed us the crater the bomb created in the road. Unbelievable! My heart sank. It truly is a miracle that these men are alive. Our hearts, thoughts, and prayers go out to the family of the wonderful soldier (and friend to these men) who lost his life in the blast.
After the BBQ, the CAUSE organization was giving free massages to soldiers and family members. They come here about twice a month to give free massages. Jake said he really wanted one for his shoulders and back because of all the pushing he does in the wheelchair. So, he signed up! :) Boy, he was in heaven! His muscles felt so much better after the massage. He kept trying to get me to get a different type of massage--it was a gentle touch/relaxing/energy type of massage. Well, he was very convincing and I signed up. It was a totally different experience--not a deep tissue type of massage, but it was very relaxing.
This evening had a great ending for Jake. The cafeteria at the Mologne House had one of Jake's favorite--"Cheesecake Factory" brand Cheesecake! :) Quite the ending to a great weekend!
Day 51 - Aug 21
We love the weekends!! :)
No appointments, no rushing around, more relaxed atmosphere, get to sleep in, great BBQ's, etc., etc. :) Jake had a good night last night--much better than he has this whole week. I think he only woke up twice with pain in his leg. I wanted him to sleep as long as he could, so I put the privacy sign outside the door (housekeeping comes early) and went downstairs to grab some breakfast for both of us and brought it back up to our room.
It was also a very beautiful day out today. It was warm, wasn't as much humidity as there has been, and there was actually a very nice breeze blowing! :) A group of people (some were Vietnam veterans) put on a very nice BBQ out in the courtyard with a wonderful band playing. It touched my heart seeing the older Vets saluting/honoring/supporting the newest Vets.
The potential that Jake will be coming home next week caught us a little off-gaurd and unprepared. We are thrilled, but we didn't think he'd be coming home until after he could bear weight on his legs - meaning, that he would be able to walk (even if only a little). Our house isn't set up for wheelchair access and we didn't think it would be necessesary to make it accessable. Mike and I realized as Jake's Con leave paperwork started coming together on Thursday that we had some work to do. Mike took Friday off so he could make some plans, get materials, and build a ramp into the house.
Mike decided to install the 20' long ramp in the garage. He installed it in the garage so that Jake and the ramp would stay dry should it rain or, heaven forbid, we get ice rain or snow. This gives Jake a straight shot into and out of the house without having to worry if the ramp is slippery.
Jake's buddy--the other "ginger" (red hair) --came to see him tonight. The two gingers together again. :) It was wonderful to finally meet him. They decided to go out to get dinner and then visit their other buddies who are down here. They invited me to go along, but I decided that Jake needed some time away from mom and time to just be with friends.
A quiet ending to a quiet day. :)
No appointments, no rushing around, more relaxed atmosphere, get to sleep in, great BBQ's, etc., etc. :) Jake had a good night last night--much better than he has this whole week. I think he only woke up twice with pain in his leg. I wanted him to sleep as long as he could, so I put the privacy sign outside the door (housekeeping comes early) and went downstairs to grab some breakfast for both of us and brought it back up to our room.
It was also a very beautiful day out today. It was warm, wasn't as much humidity as there has been, and there was actually a very nice breeze blowing! :) A group of people (some were Vietnam veterans) put on a very nice BBQ out in the courtyard with a wonderful band playing. It touched my heart seeing the older Vets saluting/honoring/supporting the newest Vets.
Mike decided to install the 20' long ramp in the garage. He installed it in the garage so that Jake and the ramp would stay dry should it rain or, heaven forbid, we get ice rain or snow. This gives Jake a straight shot into and out of the house without having to worry if the ramp is slippery.
Jake's buddy--the other "ginger" (red hair) --came to see him tonight. The two gingers together again. :) It was wonderful to finally meet him. They decided to go out to get dinner and then visit their other buddies who are down here. They invited me to go along, but I decided that Jake needed some time away from mom and time to just be with friends.
A quiet ending to a quiet day. :)
Saturday, August 21, 2010
Day 50 - Aug 20
There's been excitement in the air today. :) One, because of getting the last signatures needed to come home on convalescent leave, and, two, because we had a "date" tonight to go to a very wonderful dinner. :)
Jake attended his first company formation (Battle Company) this morning and was able to meet and talk to other Sergeants in his platoon. He has formation with his company on Mondays and Fridays and then there is a big formation held on Wednesday that includes all of the companies. We have been attending these formations every week. On Tuesdays and Thursdays, Jake just calls his Sergeant by 8:30 a.m. to check in.
Since he didn't have any appointments until the afternoon, we decided to work on getting the rest of the signatures needed for him to go home on leave. We found out that to get one of the signatures, Jake needed to make an appointment. We were concerned we would have to wait until Monday for the signature. :( We wanted to get the papers back to his Sergeant today so we could get all the travel arrangements progressing. Well, we were very lucky (I call it blessed) because we were able to slip in an appointment late in the afternoon. Right after PT, we headed back down the hallway to go to the appointment. It soon became clear why it was necessary to make an appointment. The appointment was with the people who handle insurance and there was much paperwork to do. This insurance covers Jake if anything happens while he is on leave.
After we were done with the insurance appointment, we headed straight over to his Sergeant and turned in the paperwork. The Sergeant will have everything ready for us Monday morning so we can head over to the travel office and get our flights home/back arranged. :) (Putting together all the travel is quite a job, a job one man has to tackle! I sure wouldn't want it! He is a very patient man--and--it helps that he is from Pittsburgh and that he is a Steelers fan!! We like him!! ;)
We are still waiting to hear from Mologne House if we can keep our room when we return or if we have to give it up and get another room. If a person is gone for a month you have to give up your room. :( The Sergeant is trying to make sure we keep our room because we have some equipment of Jake's here that would be a bit difficult to take home with us and then bring back. The Sergeant told us he would have an answer for us on Monday and he doesn't see a problem, but one never knows. We are hoping, keeping our fingers and toes crossed, and praying a lot that everything works out.
We relaxed for about an hour before getting ready for our date. :) Every Friday night is a dinner sponsored by The Aleethia Foundation. What a wonderful foundation it is! Our dinner tonight was hosted by The Heritage Foundation and boy was it wonderful!!! It was soooo delicious!! We were able to sit with Jake's medic's wife and her in-laws. We had a great time together. :) Everything was free--the bus ride over and back and the food. It was so nice to get out of the room, be in great company, and eat delicious food! Jake really enjoyed himself and was asleep on the bus within minutes of leaving the Heritage Foundation. :) He was so tired.
He got an extra bonus tonight--he heard from another one of his buddies that was in the truck with him! He was originally flown to a different hospital for his injuries. He told Jake that he will be in DC tomorrow and wants to come see him and spend some time together. :) Jake is excited to see him again--the other ginger! :)
The excitement of the day continues on to tomorrow!
Jake attended his first company formation (Battle Company) this morning and was able to meet and talk to other Sergeants in his platoon. He has formation with his company on Mondays and Fridays and then there is a big formation held on Wednesday that includes all of the companies. We have been attending these formations every week. On Tuesdays and Thursdays, Jake just calls his Sergeant by 8:30 a.m. to check in.
Since he didn't have any appointments until the afternoon, we decided to work on getting the rest of the signatures needed for him to go home on leave. We found out that to get one of the signatures, Jake needed to make an appointment. We were concerned we would have to wait until Monday for the signature. :( We wanted to get the papers back to his Sergeant today so we could get all the travel arrangements progressing. Well, we were very lucky (I call it blessed) because we were able to slip in an appointment late in the afternoon. Right after PT, we headed back down the hallway to go to the appointment. It soon became clear why it was necessary to make an appointment. The appointment was with the people who handle insurance and there was much paperwork to do. This insurance covers Jake if anything happens while he is on leave.
After we were done with the insurance appointment, we headed straight over to his Sergeant and turned in the paperwork. The Sergeant will have everything ready for us Monday morning so we can head over to the travel office and get our flights home/back arranged. :) (Putting together all the travel is quite a job, a job one man has to tackle! I sure wouldn't want it! He is a very patient man--and--it helps that he is from Pittsburgh and that he is a Steelers fan!! We like him!! ;)
We are still waiting to hear from Mologne House if we can keep our room when we return or if we have to give it up and get another room. If a person is gone for a month you have to give up your room. :( The Sergeant is trying to make sure we keep our room because we have some equipment of Jake's here that would be a bit difficult to take home with us and then bring back. The Sergeant told us he would have an answer for us on Monday and he doesn't see a problem, but one never knows. We are hoping, keeping our fingers and toes crossed, and praying a lot that everything works out.
We relaxed for about an hour before getting ready for our date. :) Every Friday night is a dinner sponsored by The Aleethia Foundation. What a wonderful foundation it is! Our dinner tonight was hosted by The Heritage Foundation and boy was it wonderful!!! It was soooo delicious!! We were able to sit with Jake's medic's wife and her in-laws. We had a great time together. :) Everything was free--the bus ride over and back and the food. It was so nice to get out of the room, be in great company, and eat delicious food! Jake really enjoyed himself and was asleep on the bus within minutes of leaving the Heritage Foundation. :) He was so tired.
He got an extra bonus tonight--he heard from another one of his buddies that was in the truck with him! He was originally flown to a different hospital for his injuries. He told Jake that he will be in DC tomorrow and wants to come see him and spend some time together. :) Jake is excited to see him again--the other ginger! :)
The excitement of the day continues on to tomorrow!
Thursday, August 19, 2010
Day 49 - Aug 19
Sleeping in (well, just a little bit), doing laundry, visiting friends, getting even more positive news all around--I'd say it was a beautiful day! :) Excluding the humidity, of course!
No appointments today, but we did go and check-in with a nurse case manager. Jake's manager is on leave this week, so someone else is covering for him. She was extremely helpful and was going to get some answers to Jake's questions. I wish that she was his nurse case manager. Not saying that his isn't a good one--because he is--it's just this woman is very easy to understand and is on top of everything.
After we visited with her, we went to see his Sergeant. This was a good visit because he approved giving Jake con leave!! :) As of right now, if we can get all the signatures of approval, it looks like we will be home some time next week. Jake will be home for about a month and then we have to return back down here to Walter Reed to continue his recovery. As soon as we do return here, however, we will begin the tedious paper work to get him transferred home for good. Jake is excited to go home to "relax" (his words) and to be with family and friends again. :) Now we have work to do at home to prepare for him and his special needs (Mike will have to handle that part). We will keep you all posted on the progress of this exciting event. :)
After lunch, Jake, his Lieutenant, and I took the shuttle over to Bethesda to see their buddies--their medic and his wife. It's always so wonderful to see them! It was even better today because they were able to talk to their medic and see for themselves how he is doing. It was nice to see them all of them together. :)
Now we are enjoying a very relaxing evening to a very beautiful day!
No appointments today, but we did go and check-in with a nurse case manager. Jake's manager is on leave this week, so someone else is covering for him. She was extremely helpful and was going to get some answers to Jake's questions. I wish that she was his nurse case manager. Not saying that his isn't a good one--because he is--it's just this woman is very easy to understand and is on top of everything.
After we visited with her, we went to see his Sergeant. This was a good visit because he approved giving Jake con leave!! :) As of right now, if we can get all the signatures of approval, it looks like we will be home some time next week. Jake will be home for about a month and then we have to return back down here to Walter Reed to continue his recovery. As soon as we do return here, however, we will begin the tedious paper work to get him transferred home for good. Jake is excited to go home to "relax" (his words) and to be with family and friends again. :) Now we have work to do at home to prepare for him and his special needs (Mike will have to handle that part). We will keep you all posted on the progress of this exciting event. :)
After lunch, Jake, his Lieutenant, and I took the shuttle over to Bethesda to see their buddies--their medic and his wife. It's always so wonderful to see them! It was even better today because they were able to talk to their medic and see for themselves how he is doing. It was nice to see them all of them together. :)
Now we are enjoying a very relaxing evening to a very beautiful day!
Day 48 - Aug 18
Rain, rain, go away, come back another day! All it did today was rain, rain, rain, and then even more rain! When I looked out our window this morning, it was coming down so hard that the road in front of the Mologne House was already starting to flood. If any of you saw Mike's photos on the blog when it rained while he was here, you will know what I saw early this morning. :( I love rain--but pushing a wheelchair in it is not so fun. At least I got a lot of exercise--and my lungs did too with all the huffing and puffing I did! Now I realize how out of shape I really am! :(
We had to go to formation this morning and saw a presentation about a family retreat for the soldiers and their families. It sounds wonderful, but we are hoping that we will be home either for good or on con-leave during the retreat.
Jake had an appointment with the primary care physician (PCP) right after the presentation She gave her stamp of approval for him to come home for good and for con-leave. :) One more hurdle overcome! This is the first time I met his PCP--she's a very nice doctor and you can tell that she really does care about these soldiers.
We had a break until after lunch when we had to return back to the hospital for a TBI meeting. Jake was extremely tired before the meeting started so got something to keep him awake--some fruit drink, an energy drink, and some gum. He stayed awake during the meeting but took a nice nap in the waiting room of PT, which room was next on his list of appointments. He transferred over to a comfy chair, got his book out to read (we were a half hour early for the appointment) and within minutes his head was drooping. I don't think he even got a paragraph read before he was asleep. He had a new PT therapist today--she was very nice and worked his legs really well. At least he came out of there with sweat, and a smile, on his face. :)
We took the shuttle bus down to Silver Springs today so that Jake could use the free Wifi in Borders to get his new IPhone activated. We couldn't get it activated at Walter Reed (WR) because the military hasn't approved an update needed for Itunes to be installed on the WR computers. Well, we spent about an hour in Borders and it just wouldn't work because the internet was so slow. :( So, a really nice security lady directed us across the street to try the Wifi at Starbucks. She and Jake had a really nice conversation because she was thinking of joining the military, but is unsure of which branch to join.
We went into Starbucks and within 15 minutes Jake was able to activate his phone. :) He was soooo happy! We decided while we were down there to go to dinner at Macaroni Grill (really, really good food!). As we strolled into the restaurant, we were greeted by four other soldiers (three of which were amputees) that we have never seen before. They asked Jake right away if he was a member of the "club". Jake and I were both confused at what they meant. They then asked if he was a member of the "roadside bomb club". Now we understood! Jake replied that he was and then they proceeded to introduce themselves to us. They were just ready to be seated and invited us to share their table and eat with them. We were appreciative of their invitation and I thought it would be nice for Jake to be with his comrades. They all were polite--some of the language that came out of one's mouth wasn't--but he did apologize. As we finished dinner and were starting to part ways, two of them stayed back and gave me hugs. It was nice to be "mom" to these soldiers for an hour or so. :) Jake went out to stall the shuttle bus while I paid our bill. Our waitress was taking forever, but I was able to make the bus by running as quickly as my short legs would let me. :)
Tomorrow, at least as of right now, will be an extremely easy day. No appointments! We are going to get some laundry done and then head over to Bethesda to visit Jake's buddy and his wife. With no rain in the forecast, it will be a brighter day--in more ways than just the weather.
We had to go to formation this morning and saw a presentation about a family retreat for the soldiers and their families. It sounds wonderful, but we are hoping that we will be home either for good or on con-leave during the retreat.
Jake had an appointment with the primary care physician (PCP) right after the presentation She gave her stamp of approval for him to come home for good and for con-leave. :) One more hurdle overcome! This is the first time I met his PCP--she's a very nice doctor and you can tell that she really does care about these soldiers.
We had a break until after lunch when we had to return back to the hospital for a TBI meeting. Jake was extremely tired before the meeting started so got something to keep him awake--some fruit drink, an energy drink, and some gum. He stayed awake during the meeting but took a nice nap in the waiting room of PT, which room was next on his list of appointments. He transferred over to a comfy chair, got his book out to read (we were a half hour early for the appointment) and within minutes his head was drooping. I don't think he even got a paragraph read before he was asleep. He had a new PT therapist today--she was very nice and worked his legs really well. At least he came out of there with sweat, and a smile, on his face. :)
We took the shuttle bus down to Silver Springs today so that Jake could use the free Wifi in Borders to get his new IPhone activated. We couldn't get it activated at Walter Reed (WR) because the military hasn't approved an update needed for Itunes to be installed on the WR computers. Well, we spent about an hour in Borders and it just wouldn't work because the internet was so slow. :( So, a really nice security lady directed us across the street to try the Wifi at Starbucks. She and Jake had a really nice conversation because she was thinking of joining the military, but is unsure of which branch to join.
We went into Starbucks and within 15 minutes Jake was able to activate his phone. :) He was soooo happy! We decided while we were down there to go to dinner at Macaroni Grill (really, really good food!). As we strolled into the restaurant, we were greeted by four other soldiers (three of which were amputees) that we have never seen before. They asked Jake right away if he was a member of the "club". Jake and I were both confused at what they meant. They then asked if he was a member of the "roadside bomb club". Now we understood! Jake replied that he was and then they proceeded to introduce themselves to us. They were just ready to be seated and invited us to share their table and eat with them. We were appreciative of their invitation and I thought it would be nice for Jake to be with his comrades. They all were polite--some of the language that came out of one's mouth wasn't--but he did apologize. As we finished dinner and were starting to part ways, two of them stayed back and gave me hugs. It was nice to be "mom" to these soldiers for an hour or so. :) Jake went out to stall the shuttle bus while I paid our bill. Our waitress was taking forever, but I was able to make the bus by running as quickly as my short legs would let me. :)
Tomorrow, at least as of right now, will be an extremely easy day. No appointments! We are going to get some laundry done and then head over to Bethesda to visit Jake's buddy and his wife. With no rain in the forecast, it will be a brighter day--in more ways than just the weather.
Wednesday, August 18, 2010
Day 47 - Aug. 17
It's amazing to see how the Lord's hands work in our daily lives. This day was a day filled with blessings!
Jake was able to sleep a bit better last night, which was really good. First blessing! He was able to sleep-in a bit longer as well because he has a new Sergeant who doesn't require him to check-in early each morning. :)
We headed over to see the orthopedic surgeon this morning to have the stitches removed from Jake's left leg and to talk to the surgeon about other things. We arrived there and was informed that the doctor wanted Jake to have x-rays first before meeting with him. I was so glad to see that they had their own radiology room within the huge office wing so that we didn't have to walk all over the hospital to find radiology! The doctor was happy to hear and see that Jake can bend his legs 90 degrees. He encouraged Jake to keep working hard with PT to get the range of motion even better in his legs.
He told us there was a lot of soft tissue damage with the compound fracture in this right leg. The ACL in his right leg is NOT torn as we were told. It is his LCL and his PCL that are torn, among other ligaments, tendons, muscle, etc. Even though bone fractures in his left leg are far worse than the right, it is his right leg that is the most problematic due to the soft tissue damage. This is evidence by the fact that Jake can bend his left leg further than he can his right leg.
We asked the doctor about the heel fractures. He was just as surprised as were we when we mentioned this to him. He said that it is quite possible that the surgeons in Bagram wrote that in his medical file and that's where the primary care physician read it. So, it seems that Jake did have broken heels.
He also told us that Jake has a total of three metal plates--one in the right and two in the left--but lots and lots of screws. Jake does not have to wear the leg brace on his left leg anymore! :) However, because of the tissue damage, he still has to wear the brace on his right leg. The doctor also told Jake that by the beginning of October he can start to weight bear on his right leg and that by the end of October he can start to weight bear on his left leg. This is all good news. We thought it wouldn't be until sometime in November.
The best news of all?? :) The doctor has no problem letting Jake return to Vermont to continue his care at home! Now, don't get too excited, because there is still other people that have to give their "stamp of approval" for him to return home. It can take some time to accomplish this--weeks/months?? This is just the first step of many that we have to take to bring him home. We are just so excited that we climbed over this first hurdle! Another blessing!
The surgeon is completing the paperwork for Jake to take convalescent leave at the same time as he is completing the paperwork paper work for Jake to return home. "Con" leave is where Jake obtains permission to go home for a visit of up to 30 days. Jake will then have to return back to Walter Reed to continue his recuperation. Again, there is a lot of paperwork for either before we are allowed to head for home. :( His sergeant has already talked to Jake about getting the paperwork going--hopefully in the next day or so. So, finger's crossed, one of these will happen soon. :)
After the visit with the doctor was over, and as we were heading out to the waiting room to leave, we saw a dear friend and his companion. It was the major who was in the room next door to Jake in the hospital, and, his dog SCOOTER!! :) We were just thrilled that we got to see them both again and had a wonderful visit. It really brightened up our day! Another miracle!
Jake and I separated after this appointment for a bit. He visited with some other people who he has met at the Mologne House while I went to take care of some more paper work that the government requires. :( It took much longer than I anticipated. I can't believe how much paper work there is with almost every aspect of the "goings on" here at the hospital and with the military.
Jake wanted Burger King for lunch---so off we went. We were looking for a place to sit to eat that would work with his wheelchair. There were a few double (two together) tables available but no one seemed to want to move over to one of them so that Jake's wheelchair could fit in on the outside of the table. So, we went back to the rear of the eating area where all those tables (which were small) were also taken. A very kind Captain motioned us over to share his table. We have never met this man before and here he was being so kind towards us. He was a very friendly man and as we talked, we found out that formerly he worked with the department of the TSGLI (traumatic servicemen ?? life insurance). Now he is working with the department that helps decide whether a soldier is able to remain in the military or not. He asked Jake if he had filled out all the paperwork for the TSGLI. Jake replied that he did but has not heard anything more about it or his status with it. This man took Jake's name and number and told him that he will check into it and will call him later this afternoon. We were very appreciative of his help and with his kindness and friendliness. He was true to his word and called Jake this afternoon with results! Another blessing! Who would guess that out all the people in the dining area, we were sitting with the one person that could get immediate results with Jake's TSGLI.
The wife of the medic who was in Jake's vehicle came to visit later in the afternoon. :) We always look forward to her visits! She brought great news about her husband that cheered us up quite a bit. Her husband is being blessed! After chatting for a bit, we all went over to the hospital to visit other members of Jake's platoon and witnessed other blessings of healing taking place. It was a wonderful afternoon for Jake to be with his buddies again. He really cares about these people.
This truly has been a day of many blessings--we are so grateful to the Lord for his help, guidance, and blessings.
Jake was able to sleep a bit better last night, which was really good. First blessing! He was able to sleep-in a bit longer as well because he has a new Sergeant who doesn't require him to check-in early each morning. :)
We headed over to see the orthopedic surgeon this morning to have the stitches removed from Jake's left leg and to talk to the surgeon about other things. We arrived there and was informed that the doctor wanted Jake to have x-rays first before meeting with him. I was so glad to see that they had their own radiology room within the huge office wing so that we didn't have to walk all over the hospital to find radiology! The doctor was happy to hear and see that Jake can bend his legs 90 degrees. He encouraged Jake to keep working hard with PT to get the range of motion even better in his legs.
He told us there was a lot of soft tissue damage with the compound fracture in this right leg. The ACL in his right leg is NOT torn as we were told. It is his LCL and his PCL that are torn, among other ligaments, tendons, muscle, etc. Even though bone fractures in his left leg are far worse than the right, it is his right leg that is the most problematic due to the soft tissue damage. This is evidence by the fact that Jake can bend his left leg further than he can his right leg.
We asked the doctor about the heel fractures. He was just as surprised as were we when we mentioned this to him. He said that it is quite possible that the surgeons in Bagram wrote that in his medical file and that's where the primary care physician read it. So, it seems that Jake did have broken heels.
He also told us that Jake has a total of three metal plates--one in the right and two in the left--but lots and lots of screws. Jake does not have to wear the leg brace on his left leg anymore! :) However, because of the tissue damage, he still has to wear the brace on his right leg. The doctor also told Jake that by the beginning of October he can start to weight bear on his right leg and that by the end of October he can start to weight bear on his left leg. This is all good news. We thought it wouldn't be until sometime in November.
The best news of all?? :) The doctor has no problem letting Jake return to Vermont to continue his care at home! Now, don't get too excited, because there is still other people that have to give their "stamp of approval" for him to return home. It can take some time to accomplish this--weeks/months?? This is just the first step of many that we have to take to bring him home. We are just so excited that we climbed over this first hurdle! Another blessing!
The surgeon is completing the paperwork for Jake to take convalescent leave at the same time as he is completing the paperwork paper work for Jake to return home. "Con" leave is where Jake obtains permission to go home for a visit of up to 30 days. Jake will then have to return back to Walter Reed to continue his recuperation. Again, there is a lot of paperwork for either before we are allowed to head for home. :( His sergeant has already talked to Jake about getting the paperwork going--hopefully in the next day or so. So, finger's crossed, one of these will happen soon. :)
After the visit with the doctor was over, and as we were heading out to the waiting room to leave, we saw a dear friend and his companion. It was the major who was in the room next door to Jake in the hospital, and, his dog SCOOTER!! :) We were just thrilled that we got to see them both again and had a wonderful visit. It really brightened up our day! Another miracle!
Jake and I separated after this appointment for a bit. He visited with some other people who he has met at the Mologne House while I went to take care of some more paper work that the government requires. :( It took much longer than I anticipated. I can't believe how much paper work there is with almost every aspect of the "goings on" here at the hospital and with the military.
Jake wanted Burger King for lunch---so off we went. We were looking for a place to sit to eat that would work with his wheelchair. There were a few double (two together) tables available but no one seemed to want to move over to one of them so that Jake's wheelchair could fit in on the outside of the table. So, we went back to the rear of the eating area where all those tables (which were small) were also taken. A very kind Captain motioned us over to share his table. We have never met this man before and here he was being so kind towards us. He was a very friendly man and as we talked, we found out that formerly he worked with the department of the TSGLI (traumatic servicemen ?? life insurance). Now he is working with the department that helps decide whether a soldier is able to remain in the military or not. He asked Jake if he had filled out all the paperwork for the TSGLI. Jake replied that he did but has not heard anything more about it or his status with it. This man took Jake's name and number and told him that he will check into it and will call him later this afternoon. We were very appreciative of his help and with his kindness and friendliness. He was true to his word and called Jake this afternoon with results! Another blessing! Who would guess that out all the people in the dining area, we were sitting with the one person that could get immediate results with Jake's TSGLI.
The wife of the medic who was in Jake's vehicle came to visit later in the afternoon. :) We always look forward to her visits! She brought great news about her husband that cheered us up quite a bit. Her husband is being blessed! After chatting for a bit, we all went over to the hospital to visit other members of Jake's platoon and witnessed other blessings of healing taking place. It was a wonderful afternoon for Jake to be with his buddies again. He really cares about these people.
This truly has been a day of many blessings--we are so grateful to the Lord for his help, guidance, and blessings.
Monday, August 16, 2010
Day 46 - Aug 16
Hot, humid, and with a 70% chance of a thunderstorm--the forecast for the day. Oh boy! We don't mind the rain because it cools things off, but the heat and the humidity we can do without!
We had a rough night last night. :( Jake was up a few times with extreme pain in his right leg. I felt so helpless! All I wanted to do was take away all the pain he was experiencing so he could sleep peacefully. Finally, some of the meds took effect and he was able to fall asleep.
Jake checked in early this morning with his Sergeant and found out he was being attached to a new company because he was done with all his inprocessing. One more step to coming home! We had to report back to his Sergeant at 9:00 so that Jake's new Sergeant could orientate him. So, off we went to start our day with appointments. First stop--the warrior clinic (where his primary care physician is) to get refills on some of his medications. Then the dreaded pharmacy. :( We have mixed feelings about the pharmacy. We like it because they give medicines that help Jake, but we hate it because it takes FOREVER to get those meds filled!! We almost didn't make the appointment with his new Sergeant because of the long wait. I really appreciate the pharmacy at home. I will never, ever, complain about the wait time there again!!
We briefly met his new Sergeant before the Sergeant had to head off to take care of some other business, so another squad leader processed Jake. He was a really nice man. We then headed back over to the hospital for a TBI (traumatic brain injury) appointment. They did some testing on Jake to see if he has TBI. All soldiers here go through these tests. Because Jake blacked out at the blast, they want to make sure everything is okay. Waiting for Jake to finish gave me some really great reading time. :)
The last appointment was with a physical therapist. Jake was hoping for a certain therapist because she is gentle with his legs and is similar to Matt (his hospital therapist)--pushes Jake, but stops when it's too much. Well, he got the same guy he had on Friday so Jake was NOT happy with that! He doesn't like this therapist much because the therapist did not read Jake's medical file and was pushing him to do things Jake is not allowed to do. This guy wanted Jake to ride one of the exercise bikes. There's no way Jake can even get up on the bike let alone push the pedals. So, Jake was grumbling as he rolled down the hallway to start PT. I was worried what Jake would say to the man because of the range of emotions Jake was experiencing throughout the morning. After an hour, I finally saw Jake wheeling himself out and by the look on his face, I could tell it went okay. I asked him how it went. He said he told the therapist he wanted to go a little easy today because of some intense pain he had last night. So, the therapist agreed. Jake was releaved!
The rest of the day was a bit laid back. We saw some familiar faces going to and from our trips to the hospital and had some nice visits with them. We also got to meet some other heroes here and their family members today. Being here with people that are going through the same situation as you makes the stay here a bit more tolerable. We all have the same goal--get our family members healed and healthy so they can return home.
The thunderstorm never arrived. :( The heat and the humidity stayed. :( But, we survived another day!! It's another day checked off!! We will keep plugging along--no matter how hot and sticky we get! :)
We had a rough night last night. :( Jake was up a few times with extreme pain in his right leg. I felt so helpless! All I wanted to do was take away all the pain he was experiencing so he could sleep peacefully. Finally, some of the meds took effect and he was able to fall asleep.
Jake checked in early this morning with his Sergeant and found out he was being attached to a new company because he was done with all his inprocessing. One more step to coming home! We had to report back to his Sergeant at 9:00 so that Jake's new Sergeant could orientate him. So, off we went to start our day with appointments. First stop--the warrior clinic (where his primary care physician is) to get refills on some of his medications. Then the dreaded pharmacy. :( We have mixed feelings about the pharmacy. We like it because they give medicines that help Jake, but we hate it because it takes FOREVER to get those meds filled!! We almost didn't make the appointment with his new Sergeant because of the long wait. I really appreciate the pharmacy at home. I will never, ever, complain about the wait time there again!!
We briefly met his new Sergeant before the Sergeant had to head off to take care of some other business, so another squad leader processed Jake. He was a really nice man. We then headed back over to the hospital for a TBI (traumatic brain injury) appointment. They did some testing on Jake to see if he has TBI. All soldiers here go through these tests. Because Jake blacked out at the blast, they want to make sure everything is okay. Waiting for Jake to finish gave me some really great reading time. :)
The last appointment was with a physical therapist. Jake was hoping for a certain therapist because she is gentle with his legs and is similar to Matt (his hospital therapist)--pushes Jake, but stops when it's too much. Well, he got the same guy he had on Friday so Jake was NOT happy with that! He doesn't like this therapist much because the therapist did not read Jake's medical file and was pushing him to do things Jake is not allowed to do. This guy wanted Jake to ride one of the exercise bikes. There's no way Jake can even get up on the bike let alone push the pedals. So, Jake was grumbling as he rolled down the hallway to start PT. I was worried what Jake would say to the man because of the range of emotions Jake was experiencing throughout the morning. After an hour, I finally saw Jake wheeling himself out and by the look on his face, I could tell it went okay. I asked him how it went. He said he told the therapist he wanted to go a little easy today because of some intense pain he had last night. So, the therapist agreed. Jake was releaved!
The rest of the day was a bit laid back. We saw some familiar faces going to and from our trips to the hospital and had some nice visits with them. We also got to meet some other heroes here and their family members today. Being here with people that are going through the same situation as you makes the stay here a bit more tolerable. We all have the same goal--get our family members healed and healthy so they can return home.
The thunderstorm never arrived. :( The heat and the humidity stayed. :( But, we survived another day!! It's another day checked off!! We will keep plugging along--no matter how hot and sticky we get! :)
Sunday, August 15, 2010
Day 45 - Aug 15
Mike left early this morning to fly back to Vermont. It was extremely hard to say goodbye to him, once again, but we will try to be strong. We have the help and strength of the Lord with us.
Jake and I slept in this morning because we woke up a few times throughout the night. Around 5:30 a.m., we heard this loud, strange noise. I thought that maybe Jake was still asleep because he didn't say anything, but come to find out later that he did hear it. While I was lying in bed listening to this noise, I thought that maybe it was coming from our mini-frig because it makes noises coming on throughout the night. But, this noise wouldn't stop. The thought passed through my tired brain that maybe it was a fire alarm, but I reasoned to myself that it wasn't loud enough, nor did I smell any smoke or anything else. As I closed my eyes to drift back to sweet slumber, I decided that it was the stupid frig. Boy, was I wrong. Jake told me this morning that another resident here told him that it was a fire alarm. Oops! She told Jake that only 10 people came outside during this alarm. Oops again!! We've learned our lesson. Whenever we hear anything like that again, we are outside ASAP!!
This afternoon an organization put on a wonderful BBQ outside in the courtyard. The food was great, the music was wonderful, and the company was the best! Jake and I were able to talk to a few people--some from the organization, others who are also NMA's (non-medical assistants) here with their sons, daughters, grandsons, etc., and some parents that we met over at the hospital whose sons and daughters are still there. It was great to talk and laugh with these people and to share our feelings with one another. I know that Jake enjoys talking to people here no matter who they are or what their circumstances are--he gets that from his dad.
I wish everyone could visit all the heroes here at Walter Reed, Bethesda, and all the other military medical hospitals that treat these heroes. I wish they could visit with all the heroes that are serving our country right now--whether in Iraq, Afghanistan, etc.--or those who have served our country in other wars. I see so many heroes every single day. All of the men and women serving our country and have served our country are heroes in my eyes--no matter if they were injured or not--no matter what flaws they have--no matter what mistakes they have made in the past. They are willing to sacrifice anything--limbs or their lives--for our country, for our freedoms, for us. They became an instant hero to me the day they enlisted in the military. My life has been extremely blessed because of them all.
The rest of the day we watched some cute movies that Jake hasn't seen yet, read emails, and just talked with one another. A day that helped us prepare for the busy week that starts early tomorrow morning.
Jake and I slept in this morning because we woke up a few times throughout the night. Around 5:30 a.m., we heard this loud, strange noise. I thought that maybe Jake was still asleep because he didn't say anything, but come to find out later that he did hear it. While I was lying in bed listening to this noise, I thought that maybe it was coming from our mini-frig because it makes noises coming on throughout the night. But, this noise wouldn't stop. The thought passed through my tired brain that maybe it was a fire alarm, but I reasoned to myself that it wasn't loud enough, nor did I smell any smoke or anything else. As I closed my eyes to drift back to sweet slumber, I decided that it was the stupid frig. Boy, was I wrong. Jake told me this morning that another resident here told him that it was a fire alarm. Oops! She told Jake that only 10 people came outside during this alarm. Oops again!! We've learned our lesson. Whenever we hear anything like that again, we are outside ASAP!!
This afternoon an organization put on a wonderful BBQ outside in the courtyard. The food was great, the music was wonderful, and the company was the best! Jake and I were able to talk to a few people--some from the organization, others who are also NMA's (non-medical assistants) here with their sons, daughters, grandsons, etc., and some parents that we met over at the hospital whose sons and daughters are still there. It was great to talk and laugh with these people and to share our feelings with one another. I know that Jake enjoys talking to people here no matter who they are or what their circumstances are--he gets that from his dad.
I wish everyone could visit all the heroes here at Walter Reed, Bethesda, and all the other military medical hospitals that treat these heroes. I wish they could visit with all the heroes that are serving our country right now--whether in Iraq, Afghanistan, etc.--or those who have served our country in other wars. I see so many heroes every single day. All of the men and women serving our country and have served our country are heroes in my eyes--no matter if they were injured or not--no matter what flaws they have--no matter what mistakes they have made in the past. They are willing to sacrifice anything--limbs or their lives--for our country, for our freedoms, for us. They became an instant hero to me the day they enlisted in the military. My life has been extremely blessed because of them all.
The rest of the day we watched some cute movies that Jake hasn't seen yet, read emails, and just talked with one another. A day that helped us prepare for the busy week that starts early tomorrow morning.
Day 44 - Aug 14
I'm late on today's blog post. Sorry.
Jake slept in whilst I got a few things done in the morning. After he awoke, we got busy doing some running around town. He doesn't have appointments on Saturday so we get out-and-about the town. Getting in and out of a taxi is getting a bit easier, but still tough.
The taxi service in the area is robust, but they are totally unreliable should you reserve cab by phone. This morning was the second time a cab didn't show - after three follow-up phone calls. Very frustrating to be trapped because you can't get transportation. We finally caught a bus and headed into town where we could then find a taxi
The taxi we found in town was parked about 18" off the curb. Too close to get a wheelchair one the street and next to the cab and yet too far away for Jake to transition from his chair on the sidewalk into the cab. I crouched down between the car and the curb so that Jake could place his hands on my shoulder and use my lap as a transitional seat. He swung from his chair to my lap and from my lap into the car. It wasn't pretty, but hey, it worked.
Mom flew in today too. We were super excited to be with her again! We went to dinner together and then watched a movie back in the room before checking out for the night.
Another person recently gave me reason to pause and think about hate, evil, and forgiveness. Children are taught hate of others by adults (Mosiah 10:17). Do those who wish to do us harm hate us? I suspect they do. Where did they learn this hatred? It may have been taught to them from the time they were small. A child, teen, or adult may have done my son great harm - harm he will live with for the rest of his life, both mentally and physically - but I will let God judge the intention of those that did him harm.
Regardless of the intentions of those who fight against us, we will defend ourselves. While I believe we have a right and obligation to defend ourselves, I refuse to hate. Even if the people who did this terrible thing to my son are grown men, I do not know their reasoning nor their level of accountability so I refuse to judge their intent or to hate them.
Some may chide my attitude as simple minded and unpatriotic, but I am a person who stands for peace and forgiveness. After working with many people who were filled with hate for others, I have come to believe that our ability to judge another's intent and level of accountability is grossly inadequate.
Can a child do terrible things to others, grow up, change, be a good person, and do much good in the world at large? Of course, we only need consider Alma the Younger. I believe that people grow and change. If not, then God's plan is for nothing. "And the days of the children of men were prolonged, according to the will of God, that they might repent while in the flesh; wherefore, their state became a state of probation, and their time was lengthened, according to the commandments which the Lord God gave unto the children of men. For he gave commandment that all men must repent; for he showed unto all men that they were lost, because of the transgression of their parents." (2 Nephi 2:21) We're all working through our own weaknesses, challenges, and evil. It is Christ's commentary that it is better for us to work on pulling the beam out of our own eye than it is to focus on the sliver in the eye of another. Paraphrasing one of my favorite authors, Neal A. Maxwell said something like, Having a head full of rocks, we shouldn't be too quick to cast stones at another.
Jake slept in whilst I got a few things done in the morning. After he awoke, we got busy doing some running around town. He doesn't have appointments on Saturday so we get out-and-about the town. Getting in and out of a taxi is getting a bit easier, but still tough.
The taxi service in the area is robust, but they are totally unreliable should you reserve cab by phone. This morning was the second time a cab didn't show - after three follow-up phone calls. Very frustrating to be trapped because you can't get transportation. We finally caught a bus and headed into town where we could then find a taxi
The taxi we found in town was parked about 18" off the curb. Too close to get a wheelchair one the street and next to the cab and yet too far away for Jake to transition from his chair on the sidewalk into the cab. I crouched down between the car and the curb so that Jake could place his hands on my shoulder and use my lap as a transitional seat. He swung from his chair to my lap and from my lap into the car. It wasn't pretty, but hey, it worked.
Mom flew in today too. We were super excited to be with her again! We went to dinner together and then watched a movie back in the room before checking out for the night.
Another person recently gave me reason to pause and think about hate, evil, and forgiveness. Children are taught hate of others by adults (Mosiah 10:17). Do those who wish to do us harm hate us? I suspect they do. Where did they learn this hatred? It may have been taught to them from the time they were small. A child, teen, or adult may have done my son great harm - harm he will live with for the rest of his life, both mentally and physically - but I will let God judge the intention of those that did him harm.
Regardless of the intentions of those who fight against us, we will defend ourselves. While I believe we have a right and obligation to defend ourselves, I refuse to hate. Even if the people who did this terrible thing to my son are grown men, I do not know their reasoning nor their level of accountability so I refuse to judge their intent or to hate them.
Some may chide my attitude as simple minded and unpatriotic, but I am a person who stands for peace and forgiveness. After working with many people who were filled with hate for others, I have come to believe that our ability to judge another's intent and level of accountability is grossly inadequate.
Can a child do terrible things to others, grow up, change, be a good person, and do much good in the world at large? Of course, we only need consider Alma the Younger. I believe that people grow and change. If not, then God's plan is for nothing. "And the days of the children of men were prolonged, according to the will of God, that they might repent while in the flesh; wherefore, their state became a state of probation, and their time was lengthened, according to the commandments which the Lord God gave unto the children of men. For he gave commandment that all men must repent; for he showed unto all men that they were lost, because of the transgression of their parents." (2 Nephi 2:21) We're all working through our own weaknesses, challenges, and evil. It is Christ's commentary that it is better for us to work on pulling the beam out of our own eye than it is to focus on the sliver in the eye of another. Paraphrasing one of my favorite authors, Neal A. Maxwell said something like, Having a head full of rocks, we shouldn't be too quick to cast stones at another.
Saturday, August 14, 2010
Day 43 - Aug 13; A side note
Friends have thanked us for keeping up this blog. Your encouragement is appreciated, but we appreciate even more that you continue to be interested in and pray for Jake's progress.
Hugs, Mike and Nancy.
Hugs, Mike and Nancy.
Day 43 - Aug 13
The biggest challenge Jake has is getting his knees to bend. He is able to bend them 90 degrees, but isn't able to bend them past that point, after a bit of stretching. Bending to 90 degrees is very painful around the upper part of his knee joint. He feels something stretching inside his leg on either side of his knee cap. He's been trying hard to get his legs past 90 degrees, but the pain is just too much. Flexibility of his knees was the focus of physical therapy today and has been for some time. He will continue to work on regaining flexibility and in a few months he will re-learn how to walk. Then, he'll work on re-building muscle.
While the day had some painful moments (physical therapy), it was also a great day. There are many local organizations that sponsor events for wounded warriors and their families. A friend of his, residing over at Bethesda hospital, had signed up to see a Washington National's game and wanted Jake to go. To make the long part of finding out how to sign up for this event short, after a week of contacting people I finally found the organizer who literally made room for us even though the event was overbooked.
The bus was filled to the brim, including eleven wheelchair bound warriors. The wheelchair warriors wheeled themselves onto a special lift and up they'd go. All but one transferred to a bus seat and stowed their chair in the cargo space below. Transferring to a seat was a little bit difficult for Jake, but the lack of leg room was more of a challenge. He had to bend his knees pretty close to 90 degrees for most of the journey. He didn't have room to stretch them out so he pushed through the pain. He distracted himself from the pain by reading his newest book sent by his cousin Mary (Thanks Mary!!! You should of seen the smile when he opened your box!).
This is the way to see a ball game. We had three adjoining party suites on the fourth floor of the stadium. There was food, kitchens, dinning areas, big screen TVs, and something like 72 padded stadium seats between the three suites. We ate, drank, laughed, got swallowed up in the noise and energy of the place, and generally enjoyed the fun and excitement of the Nationals beating the AZ Diamondbacks. It was a great way to get out and have some fun together. Many thanks to the organizers - I gave a big hug to those I could find.
We didn't get back until after 11:00 pm. It takes Jake a while to get ready for bed. Of course, the bathroom is no longer a simple task that only takes a few minutes, neither is getting into bed. He has to wear special boots on his feet when he sleeps, elevate his heels with a pillow, and lay on his back. This allows his knees to hang in the air so they are stretched into a straight position. Boy, in the morning, the back of his knees sure are stiff and uncomfortable. When all his nighttime preparations were done, we turned off the light at just about midnight - and I wrote this post after waking up the next morning while he continued to sleep. He was completely unaware that my fingers were click clacking on the keyboard in the darkness of the room.
While the day had some painful moments (physical therapy), it was also a great day. There are many local organizations that sponsor events for wounded warriors and their families. A friend of his, residing over at Bethesda hospital, had signed up to see a Washington National's game and wanted Jake to go. To make the long part of finding out how to sign up for this event short, after a week of contacting people I finally found the organizer who literally made room for us even though the event was overbooked.
The bus was filled to the brim, including eleven wheelchair bound warriors. The wheelchair warriors wheeled themselves onto a special lift and up they'd go. All but one transferred to a bus seat and stowed their chair in the cargo space below. Transferring to a seat was a little bit difficult for Jake, but the lack of leg room was more of a challenge. He had to bend his knees pretty close to 90 degrees for most of the journey. He didn't have room to stretch them out so he pushed through the pain. He distracted himself from the pain by reading his newest book sent by his cousin Mary (Thanks Mary!!! You should of seen the smile when he opened your box!).
This is the way to see a ball game. We had three adjoining party suites on the fourth floor of the stadium. There was food, kitchens, dinning areas, big screen TVs, and something like 72 padded stadium seats between the three suites. We ate, drank, laughed, got swallowed up in the noise and energy of the place, and generally enjoyed the fun and excitement of the Nationals beating the AZ Diamondbacks. It was a great way to get out and have some fun together. Many thanks to the organizers - I gave a big hug to those I could find.
We didn't get back until after 11:00 pm. It takes Jake a while to get ready for bed. Of course, the bathroom is no longer a simple task that only takes a few minutes, neither is getting into bed. He has to wear special boots on his feet when he sleeps, elevate his heels with a pillow, and lay on his back. This allows his knees to hang in the air so they are stretched into a straight position. Boy, in the morning, the back of his knees sure are stiff and uncomfortable. When all his nighttime preparations were done, we turned off the light at just about midnight - and I wrote this post after waking up the next morning while he continued to sleep. He was completely unaware that my fingers were click clacking on the keyboard in the darkness of the room.
Friday, August 13, 2010
Day 42 - Aug 12
Today had its share of excitement. I awoke as usual, 5:00 am. Went for a run and then read my scriptures. My little squirrel friend appeared for his drink of water. Seemed quite normal.
Jake and I ate breakfast and came up to the room to grab some things. From the time we came upstairs to the time we left the building was just a couple of minutes. In that short time the sky had turned so dark that cars were driving with their lights on. It felt odd outside - dark, heavy, and ominous, but no rain. We had to meet with Sarge for Jake's morning check-in so we were off and on our way.
We put up umbrellas in preparation for rain. Wind quickly turned our umbrellas inside out and we realized they were not going to help. Our best plan was to get to the next building as quickly as possible. Pushing a wheelchair while jogging isn't all that easy, but we were making good time.
We entered the building where Sarge has his office. I didn't even make it through a paragraph in the newspaper before Jake had finished his check-in. We headed down the hallway towards the outer door. The door leading outside became visible as we rounded a corner. We could see that rain was coming down in buckets. It was raining in a way I've only seen a few times. In those few minutes we were in Sarge's office, so much rain had fallen that the roads were rivers, water was pouring off the roof like a fire hose, and trees were beginning to lay sideways in the wind.
Trees came down, cars were stuck in roadways turned into rivers of water, live power lines lay on the ground, ninety-thousand people lost power, and water was leaking into buildings all over the Walter Reed Campus. And then, it was all over.
Jake got some tough PT today. I'm afraid there's more of this to come. New exercises and more stretching. He still can't bend either leg past about 90 degrees. At about 90 degree bend, he feels a lot of muscle or ligament pain as they stretch around he knee.
After PT, we visited with one of the men that was in Jake's truck. He is doing better, but still has months of rehabilitation ahead of him. We also visited one of the young men from his unit who is in the ICU. I wish I could say more about these men, but I respect their privacy. Here's the sobering reality, over a third of Jake's platoon is no longer functioning. What a sad and troubling thought.
Dinner time brought us a tornado warning, but the storm was a dud - it fizzled. Guess it is going to be difficult to top the storm we went through this morning.
Jake and I ate breakfast and came up to the room to grab some things. From the time we came upstairs to the time we left the building was just a couple of minutes. In that short time the sky had turned so dark that cars were driving with their lights on. It felt odd outside - dark, heavy, and ominous, but no rain. We had to meet with Sarge for Jake's morning check-in so we were off and on our way.
We put up umbrellas in preparation for rain. Wind quickly turned our umbrellas inside out and we realized they were not going to help. Our best plan was to get to the next building as quickly as possible. Pushing a wheelchair while jogging isn't all that easy, but we were making good time.
We entered the building where Sarge has his office. I didn't even make it through a paragraph in the newspaper before Jake had finished his check-in. We headed down the hallway towards the outer door. The door leading outside became visible as we rounded a corner. We could see that rain was coming down in buckets. It was raining in a way I've only seen a few times. In those few minutes we were in Sarge's office, so much rain had fallen that the roads were rivers, water was pouring off the roof like a fire hose, and trees were beginning to lay sideways in the wind.
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| Grass area turns into a pond |
Trees came down, cars were stuck in roadways turned into rivers of water, live power lines lay on the ground, ninety-thousand people lost power, and water was leaking into buildings all over the Walter Reed Campus. And then, it was all over.
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| Roads turn into a river. This BMW tried to travel the river, but stalled. |
After PT, we visited with one of the men that was in Jake's truck. He is doing better, but still has months of rehabilitation ahead of him. We also visited one of the young men from his unit who is in the ICU. I wish I could say more about these men, but I respect their privacy. Here's the sobering reality, over a third of Jake's platoon is no longer functioning. What a sad and troubling thought.
Dinner time brought us a tornado warning, but the storm was a dud - it fizzled. Guess it is going to be difficult to top the storm we went through this morning.
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